TTC After a Loss

Update to Bumping from the Hospital

Like I posted in the post that paged me, I'm home and resting. I'm still very sore, and very tired. They don't really let you sleep much when you're in the hospital, although they kept telling me I needed to rest. DH rarely left my side, except to grab himself some food, and when the drs made him.

They gave me 2 liters of blood after the surgery, and then another liter yesterday. For me that was some of the scariest moments. I have a pretty big incision, so I need to take it easy for some time.

The paramedics, ER nurses, surgeons, and recovery nurses/techs were wonderful. I wish I had caught the name of the ER nurse who mainly took care of me, he was a floater, so he wasn't assigned to me, but he never left my side.

The paramedics made a decision to take me to the closest ER although that wasn't the hospital who had been taking care of the ectopic to that point. He said usually when women have issues like this, he likes to take them to the hospital that includes their drs, but with my blood pressure/rush hour traffic in Baltimore, and Memorial Day holiday traffic, he wasn't sure if we would make it. Once they got me to the ER and I was stabilized, he told me he was almost 100% positive that if he attempted to take me to the other hospital, that I would have died in the ambulance.

They told me I may have to be off of work between 4-6 weeks, but they will decide more as I heal. 

Anyway, just wanted to update everyone. I hope the rest of you had a much nicer Memorial Day weekend.

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BFP #2 04/25/12 EDD 01/04/13(?) confirmed ectopic 05/16/12 6 wks 5 days 2 doses of MTX-Lost left tube on 05/25/12 Back to TTC, earlier than originally expected.
BFP #3 01/05/13 EDD 09/17/13 u/s 1/24/13-great appt, measuring 2 days ahead, NT scan 3/11/13-great scan measuring 4 days ahead, A/S 4/29/13-another great scan can't wait to meet my baby BOY!!!!!
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Re: Update to Bumping from the Hospital

  • delinodelino member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Ectopics are crazy scary.  I'm so glad they got you to the hospital in time and that you're home resting.
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  • I've been thinking of you. Thanks for the update. Sending healing thoughts your way. ((hugs))
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  • Wow. What an experience. I am so sorry you are going through this but gla they took you to the closest er. 
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  • Oh my gosh, how incredibly scary! I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I wish you all the best for a speedy recovery.
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  • This is something that no woman should have to ever experience, and I am so glad that you are doing so well, all things considered. 

  • Glad you're home and on the mend. Sorry again for your loss.
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  • I am so sorry you are having to go through this but I'm glad you are okay! Take it easy as much as possible! ((((Huge hugs))))
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  • So incredibly scary. I'm glad you are recovering well.

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  • kiki4kiki4 member
    That is so frightening! I'm happy to hear you are home and resting. Praying for a speedy recovery!
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    I am so sorry you had to experience that, but I'm glad you're doing okay now.  Please take care of yourself and get lots of rest.  Big (((HUGS)))

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  • I am so sorry you are going through this, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.  ((hugs))
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  • KGS2003KGS2003 member
    Thank goodness they took you to the nearest hospital and they were able to do the surgery.  (((Hugs))) for having to go through all of this again. 
  • I'm so glad to know that you are on your way to recovery. I cannot imagine how scary it has all been. (((hugs)))

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  • Ectopics are terrifying, and you really went through the worst of it.  I'm so so sorry. Wishing you the best for a safe & speedy recovery.  

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  • I am so sorry that you had to go through all of this. Big hugs and t&ps for a quick recovery.
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  • God Bless that Paramedic!!!  So glad that you are home and resting.  T&P for a speedy physical and emotional recovery!
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  • Lots of t&ps and ((hugs)) coming your way. Im glad you were well taken care of. 
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  • Oh honey I am so sorry, I am glad you got to the hospital in time and are now resting. Many hugs sweetie.
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  • I am SO so sorry for what you are going through but thank goodness for the paramedic and that you are doing okay now!
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  • That must have been so scary. I am glad you are home and resting.
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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    That is so incredibly scary.  (( hugs )) to you.


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  • Thank you for everyone's kind words. It was a long night at home. I wanted to try to sleep in bed, but it was easier to sleep on sofa. I'm so swollen, everything is too tight. I just don't feel like myself right now. I took my first shower since Friday morning and it felt wonderful, although it was exhausting going upstairs to take it. I was able to wash off with baby wipes and wash my face at the hospital, but washing my hair and actually using soap on my body was a great feeling.

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  • I'm glad to hear that you're recovering. I can't even imagine how scary that must have been.

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  • I'm so glad you're ok. Please rest and take care of your body. Lots of love. 

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  • Wow what a scary experience, I'll be praying for a very fast recovery for you my dear!

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