At my 35 week checkup my midwife wanted to talk about what happens at the end of my pregnancy. I was actually really thankful that she brought it up now so that expectations could be managed, and we could have a calm conversation when everyone is relaxed and rational. I guess I should throw in there that she is a Hypnobirthing instructor (we're using this too) on top of being a CNM. I'm due on 23 June. She said that if I haven't delivered by 29/30 June they would offer to induce me - when I decline, I'll be referred to a high risk doc where they will do a NST and check my fluid levels. If all is good, they'll let me go as late as 4 July before they induce me. Now, this is all just hypothetical, but if my bishop score is still low on 4 July what would you do? She said in her professional opinion, she wouldn't go any further because the risks are just too high and the desired outcome is healthy baby/healthy mommy. I totally agree, I'm just curious if you all would allow yourselves to be induced knowing that the chances of a c-section are so high? I am probably freaking out about nothing, but I'm high on information right now and have too much time to think Thanks!
Re: Opinions on Induction
I definitely wouldn't put myself or the baby in a high risk situation just to try to stick to my birth plan. If my MW was strongly recommending that I be induced, and I was that late, yes I would definitely do it. You can still have a drug-free birth and be induced, it might be harder, but it's not impossible.
My best friend had an at-home water birth planned with midwives but after being 18 days late, they wouldn't let her go any further and she had to be induced and have the baby in a hospital. She also ended up having an epidural. It was the total opposite of everything she planned but in the end, it was the best for her and the baby and she has a really smart and awesome kid now. It taught me that not everything is in your control.
My practice will recommend induction the evening of 41w6d (provided everything else is looking good). So that's how far I would be comfortable going, I would go to 42w, but not beyond...
Have you considered what will happen if you refuse? I know with my practice they asked you to sign a waiver and then you were free to continue for as long as you wanted. I always wondered though by doing that if insurance could refuse coverage since you were going AMA.
The 4th of July isn't even 2 weeks overdue, and thats the longest you are "allowed" to go for? I'm surprised you'd need to be referred to a high risk doctor for being a week overdue, that seems like a bit much. I stayed under my midwives care until I was 42 +1 and we decided to induce. I get that you don't have much say in your care providers policies but that really sucks!