TTC After a Loss

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Hi there, I have lurked for a couple of days now and thought I had better introduce myself in case I feel like posting... DH and I have been TTC since october 2011, so 7 months now, we FINALLY got that elusive BFP on 5/15, and I proceeded to have a CP on the 22/23rd.  We are so bummed out!  My follow-up appointment with my OB/GYN isn't until the 6th of june, but she didn't say to not try in the meantime.  At first I thought I would for sure want to take a break, but after having a few days to absorb what has happened I think I would like to get straight "back to business". 

More about us:  I just turned 25 on the 10th, DH is 26.  We have been married for 4.5 years.  We have 3 "furbabies", Charlie - my 5 year old aussie/lab mix, Miss Topaz (taz for short) is a 2 year old 1/2 siamese calico, and Toots is a 1 1/2 year old mutt kitty. I am an office manager at a chain of payday loan/check cashing stores (not my fav. thing, but it's full time and that's tough to find in our area right now) and DH is an electrician.  My BIL and his wife just had a precious baby girl on the 22nd (kind of cruel and unusual punishment that my niece was born as I was miscarrying, but she is an angel and a blessing and we love her) so I'm an aunt!!!  DH and I are both geeky sci-fi/fantasy TV series junkies, think Supernatural, Smallville, Farscape, Stargate, etc. 

Anyway, I just thought it best to say hello in the event I come out of lurking eventually!

BFP 5/15, CP 5/23. We had 7 sweet days with our Angel Baby. image imageimage
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  • Welcome and looking forward to getting to know you! But, I do hope your stay here is short and sweet!!!
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  • I'm sorry for your loss, but hope you find the support you need here.
    Me(22)-DH(25) Started dating- June 2005 Married-Feb.2011 TTC#1 Since Jan. 2012- BFP Jan 31, 2012 3-15-12 Missed M/C at 10 weeks 3 days (baby measured 7w 3d)
  • I'm very sorry for your loss but welcome to this board. HUGS

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  • welcome! my bff tried again the very first cycle after a cp and she got another BFP... GL!
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. If your follow-up is on June 6th, I think the implication is that you shouldn't be TTC in the meantime. I'd definitely call for clarification.  
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  • I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.
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  • Sorry for your loss but glad you found it here. Even just lurking helps on the worse days, knowing that your are not alone. Hope your stay is short. Welcome.
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  • sorry for your loss.  I hope your stay here is short & sweet.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. If your follow-up is on June 6th, I think the implication is that you shouldn't be TTC in the meantime. I'd definitely call for clarification.  

    Great point, no idea why that never occurred to me! They are open for a couple of hours tomorrow morning, I will try to get a call in then!

    Thank you for the warm welcome and good wishes everyone. 

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  • Welcome to our board.

    Im sorry for your loss, and wish u didn't have to join us. But I hope you have a short sweet stay. 

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    BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
    BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
    BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
    BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
    BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
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    welcome to the board!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board!
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.
    BFP #1 1.2.12 EDD 9.15.12 :: mmc 2.22.12. / d&c 2.23.12 :: 2nd d&c 3.16.12

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  • Welcome! I'm sorry you had to join us but I hope your stay is short and sweet!

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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to board.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board - I hope your stay here is a short one.
    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
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  • Sorry for your loss and welcome!
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