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having second toughts :(
been ttc since feb 2011 , 2 mc since then , and each month that AF shows up i'm a complete mess i've turned into this strange ttc junky and i think it's not fair to my husband or my daughter ( she still asks about the lost babies) started talking to hubby yesterday that maybe we shall be sticking to a family of 3
our island does not provide infertility treatment and insurance does not cover abroad infertility treatment we just moved into a new house so we can't afford all those travel expences plus treatment
guess i'll start concentrating on the small family we are now and make the most of each day , plus start on a journey to loose all the weight i have gained in the past 2 years 
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Re: having second toughts :(
Don't give up! As time goes by things just get worse as your eggs get older, believe me that happened to me, i waited too much to have #2 now I am 39 and it might be too late and a terrible mistake I made, my excuses were similar to yours such as new job, work load, i can wait, need to lose weight, don't make the same mistake I did!
Keep it going, maybe you can do clomid and trigger shot and timed intercourse w an OB/GYN, so you are not giving it all up which will make you frustrated. Or maybe you can try a mini-IVF that is lower cost and travel once things settle for you.
I know a lot of people that did IVF and had to travel to another state but got pregnant finally. You have to look in the long term. If 3 is not what you dream of for a family keep it going while your eggs are still there! God bless you and Good luck!
i tried clomid , still not ovulating , and they suspect that i have too much scartissue and not enough uterine lining left after the d&c in sept (no HB at 9wk utltrasound ) , i did scedule an appointment for a second oppinion at another doc
at the moment i'm not tring or avoiding anymore i'm going to stop stressing on the 2ww and relax on my coming projects