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IF got me out of a speeding ticket :(

I'm in now way proud of it, but I went to the store this morning and got stopped for speeding in a school zone.  It's no excuse, but I don't normally drive down that road during school hours because I'm normally working.  When he stopped me I apologized profusely and told him that my head is elsewhere due to IVF.  He asked what that was and I told him in vitro fertilization.  He asked if we've had problems and when I told him about our 3 ectopics he glanced at my license and gave it right back to me.  Told me if I get into an accident, everything we've gone through will be for nothing.  He's very right.  Am I a bad person for using this to get out of a ticket?  Is karma gonna get me?
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Re: IF got me out of a speeding ticket :(

  • LOL.  At least IF can be good for something! 
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  • No, you're not a bad person! You were just being honest. IF can totally distract you and it's nice that he was understanding! He was probably just glad that you didn't burst into tears!!

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  • LOL...hey use what you got!

    DH and I joke about him getting pulled over when he's on his way to drop off his sample! All he'd have to do is whip out that cup and I bet the cop would run the other way!

    I'm glad you got out of the ticket! 


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  • A lot nicer than the cop I had a few months ago! I was going a few over in a school zone (I wasn't familiar with the area and totally missed the sign) and got pulled over. He looked in my back seat and said "do you have children" and I said "no, not yet", He said "well of course not, you're to young to care about the saftey of children." Indifferent I said "my age has nothing to do with it, I am unable to have kids. I'm not from this city and just missed the sign."

    What a douche. I reported him too.

     

     

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    OMG--I did the same thing!!  It was true though.  I was caught going 33 in a 25, and was pulled over.  When he asked why I was speeding I told him I didn't know that I was.  I explained that my husband and I are dealing with infertility, I had just had a call from my doctor and my head was elsewhere.

     He let me leave without even a warning.  Sometimes, honestly is the best policy, and I don't think it's bad karma at all! 

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    No, you're not a bad person! You were just being honest. IF can totally distract you and it's nice that he was understanding! He was probably just glad that you didn't burst into tears!!
    I may have started to cry a little.
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    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
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    imagebranmuffin2112:

    A lot nicer than the cop I had a few months ago! I was going a few over in a school zone (I wasn't familiar with the area and totally missed the sign) and got pulled over. He looked in my back seat and said "do you have children" and I said "no, not yet", He said "well of course not, you're to young to care about the saftey of children." Indifferent I said "my age has nothing to do with it, I am unable to have kids. I'm not from this city and just missed the sign."

    What a douche. I reported him too.

     

     

    Ouch! I don't blaim you for reporting him!
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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    No, you're not a bad person! You were just being honest. IF can totally distract you and it's nice that he was understanding! He was probably just glad that you didn't burst into tears!!
    I may have started to cry a little.

     That always helps! Stick out tongue lol


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    Him: 29 ~ perfect swimmers

    Laparotomy w/partial oophorectomy 8/2009 to remove cysts/endo.
    Stopped BCP 4/2010.
    Multiple clomid rounds from 11/2010 to 6/2011. ~ All BFN
    IUI w/clomid 7/2011. IUI w/clomid & injectables 11/2011 & 1/2012. ~ All BFN

    IVF:EPP 5/2012 ~ (4R, 3M, 2F w/ICSI). Both embryos txfrd. ~ BFN
    BCP to manage endo from 10/2012 to 12/2012.
    FET w/donor embryos #1: 10/2013 Cancelled
    FET w/donor embryos #1.2: 11/2013
    ~ ET of 2 beautiful blasts on 11/27.
    Beta 1: 503(12dp5dt) Beta 2: 1035(14dpt) Beta 3: 3001(16dpt)
    Beta 4: 8503(19dpt)
    Twins with an EDD of 8/15/14! Team Purple
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  • My DH is a cop and he probably would have let you out of it, knowing the ins and outs of IVF!
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  • That's hilarious!  Doesn't make you a bad person....its the truth, right??Stick out tongue
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  • Awe no I dont think karma will get you! You are probably right that your head is not screwed on right. Sometimes they will cut you a break and it seems he thought you deserved it. Everyone gets one :)
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    My DH is a police officer.  I would tell you if any woman told him that he would understand after seeing what I have gone through.  People tell lies to get out of tickets all the time...you told the truth and luckly had an officer who was caring and compasionate. 

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    My DH is a police officer.  I would tell you if any woman told him that he would understand after seeing what I have gone through.  People tell lies to get out of tickets all the time...you told the truth and luckly had an officer who was caring and compasionate. 

    Lauren

     

    ITA at least you werent lying about it.

  • Lol. Thanks for making me laugh today. Don't feel bad at all
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