3 losses and waiting.

I guess I belong here.  I'm a bit confused by all the rules, etc.

I'm in Memphis, TN.  We have been trying to conceive for a year and have had 3 miscarriages (6/11, 5 weeks, 1/12, 5w,  3/12 6 w). Last pregnancy I was found to be a compound heterozygote for the MTHFR gene and placed on high dose folate/B6/B12, had an elevated IgM for a minor antiphospholipid antibody and placed on ASA, and was on progesterone.

After this last miscarriage, I was referred to a reproductive endocrinologist, who agreed with the high dose folate/B6/B12 and the progesterone, but thought the antiphospholipid antibody was within normal lipids.  He did think my TSH was a tad high at 3.5, although it was technically within normal limits.  So I was started on levothyroxine.  I just had more blood work done and the sonohystogram done today (uncomfortable enough to not go back to work, but not terrible). I anticipate the sonohystogram results will be normal.

Anyhow, I thought I had gotten over this last miscarriage, but today's sonohystogram and the events at work this week have just made me sad today and I have had a pity party for one.  It doesn't help that my sister in law is around 20 weeks pregnant and healthy.  I'm happy for her, just sad for me because we would have been pregnant together.

I've had a hard time at work.  I work in a male environment which is somewhat unforgiving. I made the decision to tell people, because now I need to miss work for all these appts, and my job is inflexible.  Some of my coworkers have been very understanding, but some have been incredibly rude (including one who just had a baby by IVF!). 

We don't go back to the MD until June 13th, which will be just too late to try that month, so now we just wait.    

Anyhow, hope you had a better day!