Ladies, first off I want to say thank you. You are a fabulous, knowledgable group of women and I felt so at home here. I will be leaving the board and didn't want to drop off without an explanation. I hope this is not inappropriate.
Well, as you may know, my husband and I were thinking of tta because of some medical issues (related to a PTSD and a possible neurological condition). I've been under a ton of stress due to his mood swings etc. We have only been married since August 2011 and things are very rocky. So adding a child to this situation would be wrong.
He has been avoiding me lately and acting very abnormal. I went through our cell phone statement(family plan). I just had a gut feeling something was "off". Well, I discovered frequent calls and texts to a certain number over the past month or so. All things point to the fact that he has been unfaithful. He of course denies this.
I called a divorce lawyer...for me, cheating is a deal breaker. Ladies, I am truly heart broken, disappointed, sad and angry all at the same time. I thought we were starting a life together, But sadly I was so wrong. My life is falling apart. So this is goodbye. I wish you all the best. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I hope someday I will be on this board again happily.