Thanks hun. I just got the call that transfer will be tomorrow. I'm really upset because I don't know if that means that they aren't doing well. We're doing a SET so were hoping for a 5 day.
3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
Don't be upset sometimes 3dt is better than 5dt. I'm sure your RE has a good reason why and it might not be because your embies aren't doing good.
My RE preferred a 3dt with my fresh cycle and 5dt with the frosties. His reasoning was embies survive better inside than out. Either way I wish you tons and tons of good luck. One of us needs to move on!!
Tomorrow, tomorrow I love you tomorrow you're only a day away!!! Squee!
Do feel comfortable calling back and asking why they decided to do a 3dt? It may help put you at ease if you knew. I know how nerve wracking it all is. (((Hugs)))
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Don't be upset sometimes 3dt is better than 5dt. I'm sure your RE has a good reason why and it might not be because your embies aren't doing good.
My RE preferred a 3dt with my fresh cycle and 5dt with the frosties. His reasoning was embies survive better inside than out. Either way I wish you tons and tons of good luck. One of us needs to move on!!
Tomorrow, tomorrow I love you tomorrow you're only a day away!!! Squee!