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Overly vented (sorry) about but now its my turn

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in May 2012 Moms
I have an aunt that I've met twice in my life.  Needless to say, she's never been a big part of it.  Well, I made the mistake of accepting her friend request on facebook and she will not stop posting asking if I've had my baby yet.  (I do not frequent fb at all.)  She started these posts when I was only 34 weeks and they just keep coming.  This AM I got a call from my dad (aunt=his sister) asking me if I had had the baby because my aunt posted something on his wall about an update since I haven't responded to her.  This is ridiculous especially because I barely know this lady.  She also keeps mentioning how twins run in the family...I haven't had my baby, you will know when I do and I think I would know by now if I was having twins.  Frustrating...
              
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                                                            DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                     BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss 
                                                            DS #2 born 4/08/2014
      BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                               BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                    
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Re: Overly vented (sorry) about but now its my turn

  • NatPhoto09NatPhoto09 member
    I can sort of relate.  My dad's family has never been part of our lives and I accepted one of my aunts and she is my biggest commenter on pics and stuff.  Some nights when I'm just vegging in front of facebook she will try to IM until I answer, it is very annoying.  I would try to ignore it she is just excited I guess.
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  • k8edgertonk8edgerton member

    This sounds horrible... I am sorry.

    Just start deleting it or post below and say that My immediate family and close friends will know first and a facebook post will be soon to follow.

    Perhaps, she will get the hint from that? lol...

     

     

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  • k8edgertonk8edgerton member

    imageNatPhoto09:
    I can sort of relate.  My dad's family has never been part of our lives and I accepted one of my aunts and she is my biggest commenter on pics and stuff.  Some nights when I'm just vegging in front of facebook she will try to IM until I answer, it is very annoying.  I would try to ignore it she is just excited I guess.

    You can click "offline" for the IM thing... I have mine set to that all the time because I really do not want to chat with anyone online.

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  • pinkmoonlightpinkmoonlight member
    I would just delete her, but that is me. Family or not if the person in annoying me I just remove them.
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  • bornmommybornmommy member

    imagepinkmoonlight:
    I would just delete her, but that is me. Family or not if the person in annoying me I just remove them.

     

    I wish I could. Well, I know I can but, I wouldn't hear the end of it from my dad.  Our relationship is already quite strained...I don't need another thing to fight about especially at this time in my life!

                  
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                                                                DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                         BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss     
                                                                DS #2 born 4/08/2014
          BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                                   BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                        
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  • daisycookdaisycook
    de-friend her.
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  • Chelsey68Chelsey68 member
    Gotta love facebook. My husbands mother abandoned him and his brother when they were 3 and 4. She showed up at the hospital when I had DS1 and that was 4 years ago. Now she keeps trying to add me as her daughter in law on facebook. And whenever I upload a picture of my son her and her two sisters instantly like it. Like there just sitting there starring at the screen all day long. 
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