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5th anniversary gift ideas?

Dh and I will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary on June 16th. I am trying to plan ahead and decide what to get. Dh loves tools so I usually get him tools, but i was trying to think of something clever/different. I read that the fifth anniversary is traditionally wooden gifts. Any thoughts? Something engraved or carved maybe? Would it be strange to just buy him lumber to build something?... I'm kinda thinking that is strange although it would be practical.

Do you and your Dh exchange anniversary gifts? If so, what did you get him for your 5th anniversary?  We are planning on IVF 5 in July OOP and I'm not working now, so cost is a factor as well.
TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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Re: 5th anniversary gift ideas?

  • AmCheriAmCheri member
    Would he put together a model airplane?  I bought MH a kit, the motor and all of the necessary supplies for Christmas.  It'd fit the wood theme and it's a fun guy project.  
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  • imageAmCheri:
    Would he put together a model airplane?  I bought MH a kit, the motor and all of the necessary supplies for Christmas.  It'd fit the wood theme and it's a fun guy project.  

    Great idea!

    Dh and I will be celebrating our 5th in July, we were going to go to Maui again, but IVF #3 was more important.  It will be nice to see what other ladies have to rec, I need some ideas too.  :)

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  • imageBella2u07:

    imageAmCheri:
    Would he put together a model airplane?  I bought MH a kit, the motor and all of the necessary supplies for Christmas.  It'd fit the wood theme and it's a fun guy project.  

    Great idea!

    Dh and I will be celebrating our 5th in July, we were going to go to Maui again, but IVF #3 was more important.  It will be nice to see what other ladies have to rec, I need some ideas too.  :)

    I wish we could plan a return trip to Maui..... Someday. 

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • imageillinigal:
    imageBella2u07:

    imageAmCheri:
    Would he put together a model airplane?  I bought MH a kit, the motor and all of the necessary supplies for Christmas.  It'd fit the wood theme and it's a fun guy project.  

    Great idea!

    Dh and I will be celebrating our 5th in July, we were going to go to Maui again, but IVF #3 was more important.  It will be nice to see what other ladies have to rec, I need some ideas too.  :)

    I wish we could plan a return trip to Maui..... Someday. 

    We were going to do Maui for our 5th too (we went their on our honeymoon) but we also assumed we'd have children old enough to leave with their grandparents.  Most likely we're looking at our 10th anniversary for a return trip.

    My husband is awesome at getting gifts that correspond to the traditional year gifts.  I suck at it. 

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  • LaLe09LaLe09 member
    We're celebrating our 5th year as well this summer. We are planning a little getaway... probably somewhere within driving distance. We usually don't do gifts, but instead go out to eat somewhere really nice. Hope you can find something fun for your anni!

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  • We paid for IVF 3 for our 5th anniversary. :<

    You could get him the deck chairs we talked about, not sure they are wood though. Way practical. I do like the airplane idea.

    Hope you think of something cool.

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  • How about more wood for you to stain?! SurpriseStick out tongueWink

    We exchange normally but we already bought our gifts. I got my ring upgrade and he got his bike upgrade. We're going on a 9 day road trip too so that's good enough. 

    I'll keep thinking of (non-smarta$$) ideas for you!

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  • Ok, we haven't done traditional gifts ever. We celebrated our 5th last year. I actually got him wood but not on purpose. It was like a man jewelry box, to keep his watches, cuff links, his cross and some jewelry he inherited from his grampa. I had our last initial engraved on top. I figured if we have a son he could pass it down. Plus I was sick of his stuff in my box ;)

     

    This year he turns 30, his bday is right before our anni and we are taking a road trip but I still need to think of a good gift...

    What is six traditionally?  

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  • We always say we wont exchange gifts and we always end up getting each other a little something.

    I think for our 5th anniversary I got DH a telescope.

    I dont think lumber is a bad idea -- I'd get that for my DH -- and I feel my mom would have gotten that for my dad. 

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  • imageSweetDahlia:

    We paid for IVF 3 for our 5th anniversary. :<

    You could get him the deck chairs we talked about, not sure they are wood though. Way practical. I do like the airplane idea.

    Hope you think of something cool.

    Duh.  Brilliant, since we have been wanting those anyway.   

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • imageRachael07.07.07:

    How about more wood for you to stain?! SurpriseStick out tongueWink

    We exchange normally but we already bought our gifts. I got my ring upgrade and he got his bike upgrade. We're going on a 9 day road trip too so that's good enough. 

    I'll keep thinking of (non-smarta$$) ideas for you!

    Stain... God no.  Of course, if it were a flat piece of furniture, that wouldn't be as bad.  It's the spindles and nooks that are the pain. 

    TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
    IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
    IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
    IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
    Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
    IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
    Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
    Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
    IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
    IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
    ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
    Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
    IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
    IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
    **P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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