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Had my d&c today and a ?

genmalonegenmalone member
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It was a really sad morning but it's over so hopefully I can start to heal now.  I about lost it as I was walking alone in my hospital gown into the procedure room.  I've been sleeping off and on all day which is awesome since I haven't really slept since Monday.

Moving on...I should get the results of the chromosome/genetic testing early next week so I'm crossing my fingers that it wasn't something that can repeat itself.  I'm already trying to look forward to August which is the earliest we can do a FET.  I'm very blessed and fortunate to have frozen embies.

Do you guys think I'm jumping into planning the FET too soon?  One of my IRL IF friends is concerned that I'm not allowing myself to grieve.  I guess it just makes me feel like I have something to look forward to start planning and saving $$.  Thoughts? 


After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
No heartbeat at 10w6d
FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
It's a boy!
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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    I think it's fine that you're planning, you know you want to try again. I'm already cooking up plans to TTC again. It gives me hope and a purpose. The first step will be surgery to remove fibroids. Ugh! 
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    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
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  • holly321holly321 member

    I am still grieving, but I am also trying.  I am not trying to replace the baby I lost (which I have been told I am doing for wanting to ttc so soon...)

    I was told at my 2 week post op, I coud start trying right away, I decided I wanted to go on bcp.  I took 2 pills and started to get really upset, and changed my mind.  

    TTC is what is best for us right now.  It keeps me focused on something, and gives me something to look forward too.  Only you know what is best for you, don't let your friends judgements and opinions get in the way of that.

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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member

    I think it all depends on the person- we each handle things in our own way.  For me, I need a plan.  It helps me to get through the grief and gives me something to focus on and a reason to move forward.  If not, I think the grief would overwhelm me.  And it's not like you're talking about TTC right away.  You are planning for August which should give you enough time to heal physically and emotionally.

    You've been through a lot, take care of yourself.  ((Hugs)) 

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    BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12 
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  • genmalonegenmalone member
    Thanks ladies.  Glad to know I'm not alone in this.  I just need to feel like I have something to look forward to.  I'm also a planner so maybe that's it.

    After more than 2 years of fertility treatments, FET did the trick!
    IVF March 2012 - BFP! - Severe OHSS = 8 days in the hospital in kidney failure
    No heartbeat at 10w6d
    FET August 27,2012 = BFP!
    It's a boy!
    My Blog - 3 Dogs, No Baby

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