My brother and his wife just lost a baby at 20 weeks. They are having a service for the baby and I was wondering if anyone had any poems or words that had helped them through this terrible time.
Not necessarily poems, but there are a couple songs I've found to be comforting during this time, although they make me cry every.single.time, but the lyrics mean so much:
Glory Baby - Mandy Mercer
I Will Carry You - Selah
Missing our sweet baby, with us 20 weeks 4 days, born into Heaven 4/21/2012
I like to remember the saying 'When you love something, then it loves you back in whatever way it has to love'. Reminds me that the love we had for our baby was recognized and that he loved us back to the degree that he could and he gave us something back - memories, joy, the way it brought my husband and I closer, etc.
**Warning: Losses and living child mentioned** BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy. BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you. BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13Myrainbowbaby!
I thought of you and closed my eyes, And prayed to God today. I asked what makes a Mother and a Father, And I know I heard him say: A mother has a baby, This we know is true. But, God, can you be a mother or a father, When your baby's not with you? Yes, you can he replied, With confidence in his voice. I give many couples babies, When they leave is not thier choice. Some I send for a lifetime, And others for a day. And some I send to feel your womb, But theres no need to stay. I just don't understand this God, I want my baby here. He took a breath and cleared his throat, And then I saw a tear. I wish that I could show you, What your child is doing today, If you could see your child smile, With other children who say: We go to earth and learn our lessons, Of love and life and fear. My mommy and daddy loved me oh so much, I got to come straight here. I feel so lucky to have a mom and dad, Who had so much love for me. I learned my lessons very quickly, My parents set me free. I miss them both oh so much, But I visit them each day. When they go to sleep, On their pillow's where I lay. I stroke their hair and kiss their cheeks, And whisper in their ears. "Mommy and Daddy don't be sad today, I'm your baby and I'm here." So you see my dear sweet one, Your children are Ok. Your babies are here in My home, They'll be at heavens gate for you. So now you see what makes a mother and father. It's the feeling in your heart. It's the love you had so much of, Right from the very start.
My SIL gave this to me after I lost my boys, it was the first beautiful comforting thing I received. I cried when she read it to me.
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How very softly you tiptoed
into my world. Almost silently;
Only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint Your footprints have left On our hearts.
--Author Unknown
"Now I lay you down to
sleep, I pray the Lord your soul to keep; Within his arms he'll hold you
tight, My Heavenly Angel,
My Guiding Light
i put your
name in the sand. but the waves washed it
away. i put your name on my hand. but i washed it away the next day. i put your name on paper. but i
accidentally threw it away. i put your name in my
heart and forever it will stay
Fly, fly little wing Fly beyond imagining The softest cloud,
the whitest dove Upon the wind of heaven's love Past the planets and the
stars Leave this lonely world of ours Escape the sorrow and the
pain And fly again
Fly, fly precious one Your endless Journey has
begun Take your gentle happiness Far too beautiful for this Cross over
to the other shore There is peace all one word But hold this mem'ry
bittersweet Until we meet.
Fly, fly do not fear Don't waste a
breath, don't shed a tear Your heart is pure, your soul is free Be on your
way, don't wait for me Above the universe you'll climb On beyond the hands
of time The moon will rise, the sun will set But I won't
forget
Fly, fly little wing Fly, where only angels sing Fly away,
the time is right Go now, find the light.
I have more at home. Especially ones that are appropriate for a funeral. When I get home I will post them for you.
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Re: Poems?
The hospital gave us a little memory book/photo album and it had this poem in the very front...
Not necessarily poems, but there are a couple songs I've found to be comforting during this time, although they make me cry every.single.time, but the lyrics mean so much:
Glory Baby - Mandy Mercer
I Will Carry You - Selah
BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
January PAL Siggy Challenge: Good Advice
***Congratulations to my TTCAL buddy Roxyttandme!! It's a GIRL!! Charlotte arrived on 9/29!!!!***
PGaL/PAL Always Welcome!!
I thought of you and closed my eyes,
And prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother and a Father,
And I know I heard him say:
A mother has a baby,
This we know is true.
But, God, can you be a mother or a father,
When your baby's not with you?
Yes, you can he replied,
With confidence in his voice.
I give many couples babies,
When they leave is not thier choice.
Some I send for a lifetime,
And others for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb,
But theres no need to stay.
I just don't understand this God,
I want my baby here.
He took a breath and cleared his throat,
And then I saw a tear.
I wish that I could show you,
What your child is doing today,
If you could see your child smile,
With other children who say:
We go to earth and learn our lessons,
Of love and life and fear.
My mommy and daddy loved me oh so much,
I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a mom and dad,
Who had so much love for me.
I learned my lessons very quickly,
My parents set me free.
I miss them both oh so much,
But I visit them each day.
When they go to sleep,
On their pillow's where I lay.
I stroke their hair and kiss their cheeks,
And whisper in their ears.
"Mommy and Daddy don't be sad today, I'm your baby and I'm here."
So you see my dear sweet one,
Your children are Ok.
Your babies are here in My home,
They'll be at heavens gate for you.
So now you see what makes a mother and father.
It's the feeling in your heart.
It's the love you had so much of,
Right from the very start.
My SIL gave this to me after I lost my boys, it was the first beautiful comforting thing I received. I cried when she read it to me.
How very softly
you tiptoed into my world.
Almost silently;
Only a moment you stayed.
But what an imprint
Your footprints have left
On our hearts.
--Author Unknown
"Now I lay you down to sleep,
I pray the Lord your soul to keep;
Within his arms he'll hold you tight,
My Heavenly Angel, My Guiding Light
i put your name in the sand.
but the waves washed it away.
i put your name on my hand.
but i washed it away the next day.
i put your name on paper.
but i accidentally threw it away.
i put your name in my heart and forever it will stay
Fly, fly little wing
Fly beyond imagining
The softest cloud, the whitest dove
Upon the wind of heaven's love
Past the planets and the stars
Leave this lonely world of ours
Escape the sorrow and the pain
And fly again
Fly, fly precious one
Your endless Journey has begun
Take your gentle happiness
Far too beautiful for this
Cross over to the other shore
There is peace all one word
But hold this mem'ry bittersweet
Until we meet.
Fly, fly do not fear
Don't waste a breath, don't shed a tear
Your heart is pure, your soul is free
Be on your way, don't wait for me
Above the universe you'll climb
On beyond the hands of time
The moon will rise, the sun will set
But I won't forget
Fly, fly little wing
Fly, where only angels sing
Fly away, the time is right
Go now, find the light.
I have more at home. Especially ones that are appropriate for a funeral. When I get home I will post them for you.