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Sofia's father...

lhakerslhakers
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Well her father and I are not together and have not been since I was about 18 weeks pregnant.

He ended up wanting to return to his first daughters mother...it is kind of a long story with a lot of pain....a lot of drama.  You can refer back to previous posts if you want.

A friend and I were talking about our weekend.  She mentioned she went out dancing and saw Sofia's dad there with his new girlfriend and the girl he got pregnant (cute, huh?)... I did not know he had gotten someone pregnant.  I said, "Girl, he got pregnant?...What are you talking about?"  She felt bad that I did not know... the girl goes to find out the gender this Thursday.  Apparently he has nothing to do with her.

I hope it's not a girl.

I think it makes me feel like he forgot about my daughter.  He was never there for me while I was in the hospital... he came to visit once or twice...Yes I picked a winner...he wasn't like that when he was with me though...but come to find he is very manipulative and a liar.  I don't care about him, it just makes me upset he doesn't and never did care about the situation.  When on the other hand it completely changed me and my life and its something I deal with daily.  Sometimes I wish he wasn't her father. 

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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    I am so sorry you going through this. Hugs!

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    I'm better now, I was just kind of disappointed for a moment.  It's not fair that some people get to have babies and keep them...while others don't... but thus is life.
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    Hugs. You are NOT to blame. You can't control the actions of others. I cannot imagine your pain because he is so careless with his body. I know you realize the value of life and love. Some people just do not get it. They don't understand life's true treasures. Since I met you, you've been more like a sister to me than anything and you know I'm always here for you. I appreciate you and all the help/advice. Don't be too hard on yourself. I hope for you it's not a girl either but I hope more than anything he gets it together and starts treating these women in his life less like objects and more like people who deserve to be honored, loved and valued. Karma!!!!! Some day he will truly love someone who doesn't love him back...and who knows...it may be one of his children.
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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member

    *hugs*  I can't even imgine the additional pain you must feel not having Sofia's father love her and care for her the way you do.  She was lucky to have you as a mother though.

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    imageabritta34:
    Hugs. You are NOT to blame. You can't control the actions of others. I cannot imagine your pain because he is so careless with his body. I know you realize the value of life and love. Some people just do not get it. They don't understand life's true treasures. Since I met you, you've been more like a sister to me than anything and you know I'm always here for you. I appreciate you and all the help/advice. Don't be too hard on yourself. I hope for you it's not a girl either but I hope more than anything he gets it together and starts treating these women in his life less like objects and more like people who deserve to be honored, loved and valued. Karma!!!!! Some day he will truly love someone who doesn't love him back...and who knows...it may be one of his children.

     

    Very true.  Love you girly, thank you always ((HUGS))

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    imagejohnnys june:

    *hugs*  I can't even imgine the additional pain you must feel not having Sofia's father love her and care for her the way you do.  She was lucky to have you as a mother though.

    thank you:)

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    imagejohnnys june:

    *hugs*  I can't even imgine the additional pain you must feel not having Sofia's father love her and care for her the way you do.  She was lucky to have you as a mother though.

    This exactly.

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