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You're lucky you don't have kids.

lhakerslhakers
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The first parent of the day said this to me... lol...

 lady if you only knew.

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Re: You're lucky you don't have kids.

  • dexnmavdexnmav member
    Wow. SMH. I swear if someone says that to me, they aren't going to like what I say back. 
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  • fluttergirlmoonchild79fluttergirlmoonchild79 member
    I hate when people make this comment.  I realize most people who say it have no idea our history but I just wish the statement didn't exist in the first place!

     

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  • Chels1222Chels1222
    I am so sorry.  People are just ignorant. *hugs*
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  • lhakerslhakers

    imagefluttergirlmoonchild79:
    I hate when people make this comment.  I realize most people who say it have no idea our history but I just wish the statement didn't exist in the first place!

    Agreed.

    This was coming from a parent who has MULTIPLE children...from ages of upper 20's to toddlers...from different fathers.

    A little more irritating.

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  • weddedwifeweddedwife member
    That is a disgusting thing to say. I would NEVER say that to anyone, even before I had a loss. What exactly is supposed to be taken from this statement? That you are ungrateful and hate your kids? Wow, I hope they never hear you say that out loud. What does she expect, for you to have a chuckle and say back, "Yeah, you're really fvcked!"

    I would NOT have been able to keep my mouth shut. I'm so, so sorry mama! I would like to throat punch her for you.
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  • lhakerslhakers

    imageweddedwife:
    That is a disgusting thing to say. I would NEVER say that to anyone, even before I had a loss. What exactly is supposed to be taken from this statement? That you are ungrateful and hate your kids? Wow, I hope they never hear you say that out loud. What does she expect, for you to have a chuckle and say back, "Yeah, you're really fvcked!"

    I would NOT have been able to keep my mouth shut. I'm so, so sorry mama! I would like to throat punch her for you.

    where were you yesterday?! :) 

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  • careyaliscareyalis member
    imagelhakers:

    imageweddedwife:
    That is a disgusting thing to say. I would NEVER say that to anyone, even before I had a loss. What exactly is supposed to be taken from this statement? That you are ungrateful and hate your kids? Wow, I hope they never hear you say that out loud. What does she expect, for you to have a chuckle and say back, "Yeah, you're really fvcked!"

    I would NOT have been able to keep my mouth shut. I'm so, so sorry mama! I would like to throat punch her for you.

    where were you yesterday?! :) 

    I second the throat punch!!!!




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  • jbranden12jbranden12 member

    imagedexnmav:
    Wow. SMH. I swear if someone says that to me, they aren't going to like what I say back. 

     This. I would lose my shiit.



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  • agrobins1agrobins1 member

    I hear this constantly from co-workers that know exactly what happened to Ava and we're going through in our struggle to concieve again!  It's like they just don't think about what they say or care at all.  I finally stood up for myself the other day.  I said, in a nice way, "some of us don't have children, what if you didn't have those children, or lost them?" while pointing at myself.  They both, one male, one female, said "yea yea I know but..." and kept right on complaining!  I wish sometimes that I could touch someone's arm and they could for a moment feel the pain, heartache, lonliness, depression, emptiness that we do.

    Our sweet girl, born sleeping November 21, 2011 at 40w1d
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