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FET process starts tomorrow and update...... (long)

Roxie5739Roxie5739 member
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Hi Ladies. I have been quite busy recently so not around as much as I used to be. SOOOO much going on but I think I am back on top of life again, thankfully.

Firstly, I start meds tomorrow for my FET. We are 3+ weeks out from doing this, I stopped the BCP Saturday so things are off and running. I had my baseline on Friday and everything so far is on track

Secondly. my Mum arrived from Australia for 3+ week visit on Thursday. We did Mothers Day on Saturday with the 2 Mom's as my Mum was flying out to San Fran for a short city visit on Sunday. Great to have her here and DH and I had a wonderful day at the Magic Castle in Hollywood, CA with them both.

Now, the last big thing happening or not happening is the purchase of an investment property owned by the MIL and BIL is the realtor. BIL has been a nighmare to deal with from the beginning, unprofessional, forgetting deal particulars and changing the deal from day 1. Saturday he e-mailed us to say that me messed the deal up my not getting counter offers and that we could not get any $ for repairs on the house, something that was already negotiated. Then later that day he called us and totally berated DH on the phone for 30 mins how we were ripping MIL off, and that it was not fair that we were getting $7k in repairs on the house and that we were taking advantage of the MIL. Repairs to the house are around $25k so $7k in my book is fair for any purchase, if it was family or otherwise. He suggested that we cancel the deal otherwise he would never let us forget that we ripped her off and that it was not fair to him. We cancelled the deal, MIL is angry, DH is disappointed in BIL and I am happy as I was never really 100% certain that this was a good idea. BIL also said that the market has changed since we first went into Escrow so MIL can get more $ on the market now so another reason we are being unfair. WTF!! a deal is a deal in my book. He is a trainwreck and DH and I think that there is something else going on as we recenlty found out he is smoking the green stuff.... hmmmm.

On top of this I was nearly fired from work on Thursday so I am keeping low at work and keeping off the bump. I did mess up but not an error that allowed the riot act to be read. I need this job so much now with the FET coming up.

Sorry this is so long, but I have been AWOL for a while.

 

Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
 

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Re: FET process starts tomorrow and update...... (long)

  • lynn0926lynn0926 member
    You have a lot of stress right now! Take care of yourself so your body is nice and ready for your lil boy and girl to start growing in you ??
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  • reb259reb259 member
    Good luck on your upcoming cycle.
    I am AMA and all tests on H came back normal
    3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
    Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome
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  • GregermisGregermis member
    wow... that's a lot going on!  Good luck with the upcoming FET!  And take care of you!  I've been bumping a lot less from work lately as well. 
    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl


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  • mdluv21mdluv21
    GL with your FET hon!  And with everything else going, I hope it doesn't cause you too much stress!
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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  • joules12joules12 member
    Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for your FET, roxie -- looking forward to your updates!  On the other fronts, I hope things settle down for you soon.
    TTC since honeymoon in 9/2010
    Me: 39, Dx DOR (FSH = 10.5, AMH = 0.43, best AFC = 10), AMA
    MH: 37, Dx Obstructive Azoospermia, multiple successful sperm retrieval procedures

    1/2012: IVF/ICSI #1 Antagonist = cancelled d/t poor response to max stims
    2/2012: IVF/ICSI #2 MDLF (4R, 4M, 1F) = BFP, saw heartbeat, missed m/c 9w0d, D&E
    8/2012: IVF/ICSI #3 EPP/MDLF (7R, 2M, 1F) = BFN

    12/2012: (New RE) Operative hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue

    1/2013: IVF/ICSI #4 Low-dose stim/Antagonist (AFC=6); ER=1/26 (5R-couldn't access rt ovary, 5M, 4F), ET=1/29 (trans 3) = BFP!; 2/11 beta#1(13dp3dt)=2127, 2/13=3367; twin girls due 10/19/13

    PAIF/SAIF very welcome!

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  • thewormstheworms member

    that's a lot cutie.

    ((HUGS))

    GL & PPV for a successful FET

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • jessican08jessican08 member

    I'm sorry you're dealing with so much right now ((HUGS))

    Lots of T&Ps that things calm down at work and with your family. 

    Wishing you lots of luck on your upcoming FET!

    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
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  • farmerlyndafarmerlynda member

    imagebellalou32:
    I know this is easier said than done but girl, you need to let your hubby deal with the stress and you need to start focusing solely on yourself. 

    I totally agree with bella.  And I am SO thrilled that your FET is around the corner!  It's so exciting that you finally have a shot at this thing :)  I hope little boy and little girl both decide to settle in for the long haul.  GL, lucky clover :)

    Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.

    IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.

    Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.

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  • rosemary&thymerosemary&thyme member
    Wow, you have got a ton going on right now! I know it's easier said than done but try your best to focus on YOU right now. You need all the strength and positive energy that you can for your upcoming FET. GL!!!
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  • Roxie5739Roxie5739 member

    Thanks ladies. Things have calmed down a lot in the last few days but I know the first time we see the BIL it will be very weird......

    My Mum is having a great time on her mini vacation to San Fran and down the CA coast back to me in LA. DH and I had a nice quiet night at home last night and AF came today so things are getting back on track.

    Multiple ectopics, 2 failed IVF's
    IVF #1: Did not get to ET, embies all failed PGD (major chromosomal defects)
    IVF #2: We have 2 chromosomally perfect embies as a result of PGD (Boy/Girl) 1 failed the thaw (Girl) Transferred 1, yet ended as a c/p
    Thought it was the end of our TTC Journey 6/20/2012
    SHOCK BFP 9/28/2012: IT'S A BOY! and everything is normal !!!!!!

    Little A born 38w 2d on 05/23/13 and is a true miracle for this IF Vet!
     

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