Are you done having kids?

pillowpants10 · May 2012

Happy Mothers Day to all of you moms and moms to be(:

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lavet22 · May 2012

This is our 3rd and FINAL child. DH is getting snipped.

roycie27 · May 2012

lavet22:
This is our 3rd and FINAL child. DH is getting snipped.

Hear, hear!

Our only question is does he get snipped now or should we wait until after the baby is here?

pillowpants10 · May 2012

I really want one more child, even though I have hyperemesis and I've told myself so many times while puking that I am DONE after this baby. Now S/O is the one who doesn't want any more! I keep telling him "What about when we go to Disneyland? We'll be uneven on the rides!" All I get back is a blank stare, lol. Hopefully he changes his mind in the future.

rabbit · May 2012

Absolutely. We've always wanted four!

AngelxxRose · May 2012

We are 99.9% sure we are finished after having this second child. Dh is getting snipped but not until the baby is one year old, just in case we change our minds.

lavet22 · May 2012

roycie27:

lavet22:
This is our 3rd and FINAL child. DH is getting snipped.

Hear, hear!

Our only question is does he get snipped now or should we wait until after the baby is here?

HAHA-I vote now, but he wants to wait until after the baby is born. I think he's just scared.

ChristinaDawn · May 2012

Yep, this is our second and last baby.

roycie27 · May 2012

lavet22:
roycie27:

lavet22:
This is our 3rd and FINAL child. DH is getting snipped.

Hear, hear!

Our only question is does he get snipped now or should we wait until after the baby is here?

HAHA-I vote now, but he wants to wait until after the baby is born. I think he's just scared.

Yeah I lean towards as soon as possible. Cutting his junk sounds all well and good up until I'm holding the phone, demanding he make an appointment : )

Mrs.MLR04 · May 2012

ChristinaDawn:
Yep, this is our second and last baby.

Same for us!

KikiCohen · May 2012

This is only our first, so yes we'd like to have more. I was an only child though and I turned out okay lol

chpswife · May 2012

ChristinaDawn:
Yep, this is our second and last baby.

Us too......two and done.....

jadeandblake06 · May 2012

We will be done..

EmeraldEyedLady · May 2012

We've decided to have this one, wait two years and see how we feel about more and make a final decision then.

In my last pregnancy we discussed DH getting snipped before the birth when I was about 20 weeks along because we figured with twins we'd be done. I lost the pregnancy at 25 weeks and I'm so glad that we didn't go through with him having the surgery when we talked about it because it would have been so much harder for us to have it reversed in order to try again.

kristin7701 · May 2012

I am 41 -- this is our third and defnitely last! As it was, I was on the fence about 3. This should be quite the adventure.

I know some doctors will not perform a V while the partner is PG.

avila01 · May 2012

I voted yes....but I guess I could've gone with SS. I definitely want more than just this one. However, it took us two and a half years of TTC for this one, and by the time I deliver, I'll be 34. So we'll just have to see if I can get my body to cooperate again for another one.

Jena503 · May 2012

We are DONE. This is my 3rd, DH's 4th. He is getting snipped next week. He's slightly nervous, but I got the scoop from a friend - it's only 15 freaking mniutes long, it's outpatient, it's just a local anesthetic. It's just not that big of a deal.

My OB gave us the recommendation for the urologist. He suggested we wait until 24 weeks - when baby is viable.

I want this baby, but honestly, if something happened to this one we would not be looking to "replace" it with another. While we were open to a 3rd, we weren't really planning it either. I was just getting to a place mentally where I was good with the 2 we had and this has really thrown me for a loop.

skibi83 · May 2012

I really think we'll be done after this one, but I'm not 100% sure so I'm looking at getting the Implanon so we'll have three years to decide if we want more or if we are done.

PolishWonder · May 2012

SS - We're happy with 2 kids for ourselves, but we're very seriously considering having me surrogate for a friend. So, I wouldn't be done having kids, just kids of mine own.

milesc · May 2012

Boy- Yes. Done.

Girl- We'll give it one more shot.

3 tops. Would much prefer just 2.

asulilly · May 2012

This is my first unexpected, only, and last child.

3litttlebirds · May 2012

Always thought I would have 2 kids, but after this pregnancy has been so rough with finding out that I have a severely heart-shaped uterus and thus at high-risk, we are 1 and done. I would love to adopt a 2nd child if we can swing it financially...but that would be a decision to make at a much later time. We are definitely 1 and done biologically though. If this one happens to not work out due to complications, we have decided we would not try again and definitely adopt. DH plans to get snipped.

blabbe · May 2012

This will be my second and I am seriously considering being done. I will have two under 2 when LO is here. Im scared! haha. DD was such a hard baby. She was very colic and being my first it was a rough experience for me. I cant imagine going through it again! Which I am about too do but atleast this time around I know what Im getting myself into! Either way I will get through it!

CTA7 · May 2012

We're on the fence. I've always wanted 2 and DH has always wanted 3, but neither of us is set in stone. My guess is that after this one, when we see how much work 2 is, we'll be done. Wink

CatnipTrinket · May 2012

This will be my first and only child.

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