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16 & Pregnant-A birth straight out of BOBB

(Don't judge me, lol...its my guilty pleasure)

 

This last episode was ridiculous. The poor girl got sucked into a cascade of interventions through the exact same "methods" exposed by BOBB. 

38 weeks-she asks for an induction because she is "uncomfortable." For some reason, her OB obliges (which was shocking to me, as his actions were clearly unethical).

She goes in for her induction, gets the pit and hangs around for a bit (while strapped down by all those tubes and wires)

She is offered an epi and takes it 

10 hours later, her OB comes in and says her labor "hasn't progressed" as much as he would have liked. He tells her that a c-section is the proper route....and also tells her that the recovery time is about the same as a vaginal birth.

 

I felt so terrible for her watching that.. 

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Re: 16 & Pregnant-A birth straight out of BOBB

  • Sorry if this is a silly question but what does BOBB mean?
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  • Oh geez, the line about the recovery is so disturbing especially since my c-section delivery was horrendous and my vbac recover has been amazing despite tearing. At such a young healthy age she likely would have been fine if she had Waited until her body was ready.

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  • imagePaulnSabrina:
    Sorry if this is a silly question but what does BOBB mean?

    Business of Being Born as in the documentary. 

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  • I was thinking the same thing. I can't believe they induced her 2 weeks before her due date just because she was whiny... And yeah, as soon as they agreed to do that I knew exactly where she was headed with the rest of her labor. The whole thing was just awful. The other thing I keep thinking is, all of those interventions are so expensive and 9 times/10 the girls on that show are so poor - how are they ever gonna pay off those hospital bills??
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  • imagemkflower3000:
    I was thinking the same thing. I can't believe they induced her 2 weeks before her due date just because she was whiny... And yeah, as soon as they agreed to do that I knew exactly where she was headed with the rest of her labor. The whole thing was just awful. The other thing I keep thinking is, all of those interventions are so expensive and 9 times/10 the girls on that show are so poor - how are they ever gonna pay off those hospital bills??

    they are most likely on medicaid, low income women that are pregnant qualify and it typically covers the birth.  If uninsured the hospital often just writes it off and eats the cost. 

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    imagemkflower3000:
    I was thinking the same thing. I can't believe they induced her 2 weeks before her due date just because she was whiny... And yeah, as soon as they agreed to do that I knew exactly where she was headed with the rest of her labor. The whole thing was just awful. The other thing I keep thinking is, all of those interventions are so expensive and 9 times/10 the girls on that show are so poor - how are they ever gonna pay off those hospital bills??

    they are most likely on medicaid, low income women that are pregnant qualify and it typically covers the birth.  If uninsured the hospital often just writes it off and eats the cost. 

     

    They also get a pretty hefty paycheck for appearing on the show. Not sure if that would cover it, but I'm sure it would help.

     

    But you're right-even in the follow up shows, not one of those girls has ever mentioned experiencing financial hardship because of their hospital bills, so I assume they're taken care of one way or another.

     Ugh. And they always have their nails done.

    They must be super poor. Psh. 

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  • imageHarper'smom:

    Oh geez, the line about the recovery is so disturbing especially since my c-section delivery was horrendous and my vbac recover has been amazing despite tearing. At such a young healthy age she likely would have been fine if she had Waited until her body was ready.


    Could be why her mother started bawling when the OB dropped the 
    "c-section" ball...

     

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  • Yeah I thought that episode was so wierd.  I was like okay, so youre seriously going to induce her early just because shes uncomfortable??  And then after all that she had to go for a c-section. ... hmmm.. maybe thats because baby isn't ready to come out yet?!  That doc scared me and his response about c-sec. recovery was not what it should have been.

    ETA: and I saw the connection to BOBB as well, so sad.

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  • imageateal2490:
    imagepugznploons:

    imagemkflower3000:
    I was thinking the same thing. I can't believe they induced her 2 weeks before her due date just because she was whiny... And yeah, as soon as they agreed to do that I knew exactly where she was headed with the rest of her labor. The whole thing was just awful. The other thing I keep thinking is, all of those interventions are so expensive and 9 times/10 the girls on that show are so poor - how are they ever gonna pay off those hospital bills??

    they are most likely on medicaid, low income women that are pregnant qualify and it typically covers the birth.  If uninsured the hospital often just writes it off and eats the cost. 

     

    They also get a pretty hefty paycheck for appearing on the show. Not sure if that would cover it, but I'm sure it would help.

     

    But you're right-even in the follow up shows, not one of those girls has ever mentioned experiencing financial hardship because of their hospital bills, so I assume they're taken care of one way or another.

     Ugh. And they always have their nails done.

    They must be super poor. Psh. 

    Haha, truth. Interesting how all the other bills pile up, but not that one... Also interesting how they so rarely go to the goodwill to try and buy all those things that are oh so expensive in stores.  

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  • I saw this and was SO annoyed.  Did you notice also that the baby's time of birth was something like 7:23pm?!?  Me thinks doc wasn't interested in hanging around the hospital and called for the section when he was sick of waiting (aka, 5:30).
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  • The L&D nurse in me was yelling at the screen during this episode.  Seriously?  Elective 38w induction?  "Are you ready for your epidural?" -- I HATE it when it's phrased like that; like an epidural HAS to be part of a birth, like there's one in the med room with your name on it, etc.  Ugh.  Where was a nurse advocating for her, getting her up and moving...ugh. 

    I was so frustrated because they were genuinely the most responsible, mature couple that I've seen yet on that show. 

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    I saw this and was SO annoyed.  Did you notice also that the baby's time of birth was something like 7:23pm?!?  Me thinks doc wasn't interested in hanging around the hospital and called for the section when he was sick of waiting (aka, 5:30).

     

    Wow, didn't catch that.....even better.

    Sad, so, so sad. 

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  • imageateal2490:

    10 hours later, her OB comes in and says her labor "hasn't progressed" as much as he would have liked. He tells her that a c-section is the proper route....and also tells her that the recovery time is about the same as a vaginal birth.

    Informed consent FTW!

  • Jinsy80Jinsy80 member
    Yup, that episode drove me crazy! Seems like most of the people I know are having babies like that though. Induction---epidural---section...makes me sad.
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  • imageateal2490:

    imagekatiej23:
    I saw this and was SO annoyed.  Did you notice also that the baby's time of birth was something like 7:23pm?!?  Me thinks doc wasn't interested in hanging around the hospital and called for the section when he was sick of waiting (aka, 5:30).

     

    Wow, didn't catch that.....even better.

    Sad, so, so sad. 

    Agreed and this was after 10 hours of labor....really? now 10 hours of labor is cause for an emergency CS? This whole process makes me so sad. Im sure that she would have been able to deliver vaginally if she had just waited until her body (and baby) was ready.

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  • Obviously she did no research. Most of them take epi on the show. I hate when they ask "Are you ready for epi?" as well. It's not a question that gives good choices. At least she did not seem to take it as a horror story birth.

    It was nice to see a guy who actually is a good dad and partner for a change. At least he seemed so...

     

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  • What was the girls name in this episode?
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