Community› The Bump Local Boards› Northern California Babies
Northern California Babies
New Discussion

What?!! You're supposed to wear underwear for a massage?

Re: What?!! You're supposed to wear underwear for a massage?

  • MamaDepMamaDep
    I never do... They always keep the sheet covering my bits.
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • danandkellydanandkelly

    I never do either.

    Report Reply
  • KellyMarierockstarwifeKellyMarierockstarwife

    with my SIL, she does massage fully clothed. And it is the BEST massage i've ever had.

    I would PREFER to wear unders.

    Report Reply
  • dblhappinessdblhappiness
    I haven't but some people prefer to and some places have policies asking you to. Wink
    Report Reply
  • SeasonalCookSeasonalCook

    My girlfriend was a masseuse for a while and told me she preferred it when her clients were completely buck. I always wear panties b/c that's just how I roll.

    Report Reply
  • KellyMarierockstarwifeKellyMarierockstarwife

    Oh and if you're referring to my comment earlier. I think it is pretty obvious that if someone leaves their unders on, that it is because that is how they are most comfortable. A massage therapist should know this. And maybe ASK before just slipping your damn panties off. Which is what happened with me and it was really embarrassing.

    She also said "You give me tip now?" as I was leaving. I WAS going to leave her a tip, but this turned me off SO much.  

    Report Reply
  • NorCalSuperwifeNorCalSuperwife
    I never do, either. It's one of those personal preference things. :)
    Report Reply
  • My.ABC.LifeMy.ABC.Life
    I usually don't (unless its a straight man... then I do... I don't know - I'm weird).
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • NorCalSuperwifeNorCalSuperwife

    imageMy.ABC.Life:
    I usually don't (unless its a straight man... then I do... I don't know - I'm weird).

    I always request a woman, but if I had a man masseuse, I'd keep the undies on too. Haha. Not sure how that makes a difference, but oh well. 

    Report Reply
  • SeasonalCookSeasonalCook
    imageKellyMarierockstarwife:

    Oh and if you're referring to my comment earlier. I think it is pretty obvious that if someone leaves their unders on, that it is because that is how they are most comfortable. A massage therapist should know this. And maybe ASK before just slipping your damn panties off. Which is what happened with me and it was really embarrassing.

    She also said "You give me tip now?" as I was leaving. I WAS going to leave her a tip, but this turned me off SO much.  

    I didn't see your comment so WHAT? She took your panties off during the massage! That's crazy!

    Report Reply
  • Dragonfly_BrideDragonfly_Bride member
    imageKellyMarierockstarwife:

    Oh and if you're referring to my comment earlier. I think it is pretty obvious that if someone leaves their unders on, that it is because that is how they are most comfortable. A massage therapist should know this. And maybe ASK before just slipping your damn panties off. Which is what happened with me and it was really embarrassing.

    She also said "You give me tip now?" as I was leaving. I WAS going to leave her a tip, but this turned me off SO much.??

    It was in response to your comment!?

    Report Reply
  • Smuches4uSmuches4u member

    I don't wear them unless AF is here, then I feel more comfy with them on.  The full service spas I've been to offer robes and suggest being buck nekkid your entire visit.

    Day spa boutiques I've been to don't prohibit it and the massuse has always instructed me to wait under the sheet and then they leave the room for a bit.

     

    Report Reply
  • SeasonalCookSeasonalCook
    imageNorCalSuperwife:

    imageMy.ABC.Life:
    I usually don't (unless its a straight man... then I do... I don't know - I'm weird).

    I always request a woman, but if I had a man masseuse, I'd keep the undies on too. Haha. Not sure how that makes a difference, but oh well. 

    OMG, for our first anniversary DH gave me a spa package that included a massage and a body scrub. They were each given by different men. The massage was routine and was given by a clearly gay man (well, he seemed clearly gay, but you really never know I suppose). I was perfectly comfortable. But the body scrub...I was almost so uncomfortable that I couldn't enjoy it...the guy was super attractive and I couldn't tell if he was gay or straight. And unlike the massage with the sheets, I was nekkid with just 2 hand towels covering me - one across my beebees and one over my business (ha!). And the guy kept getting a little too close to my business! Ack! I don't think I breathed the entire time! I just kept willing time to go by faster!

    Report Reply
  • ZoeMay06ZoeMay06 member

    OMG, I'm cracking up here!

    But in response to the original post, I usually wear undies but no bra...just my preference. I know it would be ok to go completely commando thouh.

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • Meg_MegMeg_Meg

    imageSeasonalCook:

    OMG, for our first anniversary DH gave me a spa package that included a massage and a body scrub. They were each given by different men. The massage was routine and was given by a clearly gay man (well, he seemed clearly gay, but you really never know I suppose). I was perfectly comfortable. But the body scrub...I was almost so uncomfortable that I couldn't enjoy it...the guy was super attractive and I couldn't tell if he was gay or straight. And unlike the massage with the sheets, I was nekkid with just 2 hand towels covering me - one across my beebees and one over my business (ha!). And the guy kept getting a little too close to my business! Ack! I don't think I breathed the entire time! I just kept willing time to go by faster!

    OMG, that happened to me once too.  I'm usually perfectly ok with men - but the hand towel thing threw me off.  At one point I think I must have tuged the towel, because he actually said, "Don't worry, I haven't exposed a boob yet."  Freaked me out.

    image

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    ::My Blog:: ::My Pinterest::
    Report Reply
  • SeasonalCookSeasonalCook
    imageMeg_Meg:

    imageSeasonalCook:

    OMG, for our first anniversary DH gave me a spa package that included a massage and a body scrub. They were each given by different men. The massage was routine and was given by a clearly gay man (well, he seemed clearly gay, but you really never know I suppose). I was perfectly comfortable. But the body scrub...I was almost so uncomfortable that I couldn't enjoy it...the guy was super attractive and I couldn't tell if he was gay or straight. And unlike the massage with the sheets, I was nekkid with just 2 hand towels covering me - one across my beebees and one over my business (ha!). And the guy kept getting a little too close to my business! Ack! I don't think I breathed the entire time! I just kept willing time to go by faster!

    OMG, that happened to me once too.  I'm usually perfectly ok with men - but the hand towel thing threw me off.  At one point I think I must have tuged the towel, because he actually said, "Don't worry, I haven't exposed a boob yet."  Freaked me out.

    OMG - I would have rolled off the table in mortification!

    Report Reply
  • linnychanellinnychanel
    I like to keep my panties on, but thats just me.
    Report Reply
  • kittylovekittylove member
    I prefer to not wear them but one woman who I used to go two had a policy that we keep them on, she was so good I didn't care. When DH and I go get massages I normally ask for one of each gender and then let DH chose who he want.
    Report Reply
  • dirtbikemomdirtbikemom
    No undies on for me. ?It is funny but after being in the hospital the 1st time (not for my PG) ?and having every Dr and medical student come in and poke at me I don't worry anymore about anyone seeing anything. ?I've had both male and female masseuse.?
    imageimage
    107 Read/listened to in 2011: 91 Books/16 Audiobooks
    Read 2012: 33/50
    Report Reply
  • CelynCelyn member
    it's never occurred to me that i should take them off.  oh well.
    image
    NorCalMOMS bio* NorCalBOTB* babywearingBIO
    Harmony Doula
    Report Reply
  • angelabbfangelabbf
    imageMeg_Meg:

    imageSeasonalCook:

    OMG, for our first anniversary DH gave me a spa package that included a massage and a body scrub. They were each given by different men. The massage was routine and was given by a clearly gay man (well, he seemed clearly gay, but you really never know I suppose). I was perfectly comfortable. But the body scrub...I was almost so uncomfortable that I couldn't enjoy it...the guy was super attractive and I couldn't tell if he was gay or straight. And unlike the massage with the sheets, I was nekkid with just 2 hand towels covering me - one across my beebees and one over my business (ha!). And the guy kept getting a little too close to my business! Ack! I don't think I breathed the entire time! I just kept willing time to go by faster!

    OMG, that happened to me once too.  I'm usually perfectly ok with men - but the hand towel thing threw me off.  At one point I think I must have tuged the towel, because he actually said, "Don't worry, I haven't exposed a boob yet."  Freaked me out.

    LOL to both stories. HAHAHA!!! That's crazy.

    Veg SF Blog
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"