Ugh, I am the same way... was so anxious at my baby shower. I was looking back though and realized I hadn't felt that way at any of my THREE bridal showers.... then I remembered that I had consumed a large amount of champagne at each of those
My work one was awesome. Everyone is so busy catching up while they watch the gift opening that the honoree isn't in the spotlight quite as much as at a regular shower. Good luck!
Re: work shower today.
I hope you have fun! That's aweseome that they invited your DH to come in. I hate being the center of attention too.
Take a deep breath and enjoy the shower!!