Success after IF

It's over.....AGAIN

FET #2 is officially a chemical pregnancy.  Here are my numbers:

8dp5dt: 18

10dp5t: 21

14dp5dt: 47

RE is taking me off estrogen and progesterone.  I can't even believe this is happening again.  (Same thing happened with FET #1)  3 Transfers in the past 4 months, and no viable pregnancies.  There's no explanation for it.  I have great quality embryos (we've been transferring 2), great lining, and great b/w levels.  So what gives???  Argh!!!

several failed cycles on clomid and lose dose injectibles, IUI #1 2009 - BFN IUI #2 2009 - BFP - boy/girl twins born at 31 weeks. IVF #1= BFN; FET #1 = c/p; FET #2 = c/p, FET #3 = negative, FET #4 = positive, baby stillborn at 24 weeks.  

Re: It's over.....AGAIN

  • alchrisalchris member

    Oh sweetie, I'm beyond sorry.  My heart goes out to you. :(

    (((HUGS)))

    Pregnant with #1 with PCOS and LPD, success with mostly naturopathic treatments
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  • ugh. i'm sorry sweetie. things sucks. =( sending hugs.
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  • ugh. i'm sorry sweetie. this sucks. =( sending hugs.
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  • I am so sorry :(  ((hugs))
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    TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
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    3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
    TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12 
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    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

  • I am so very sorry.


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    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
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  • I'm so, so sorry to hear this! Sending you hugs and lots of thoughts and prayers!
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  • I'm so very sorry. ((hugs)) Chemical pregnancies suck so bad.
    TTC#1=Feb 2009: 50 mg Clomid+Ovidrel shot+Metformin+Dexamethasone+TI=BFP!
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  • I'm sorry. ((hugs))
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry. Big hugs. Hope your RE has some answers for you.
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  • I'm so sorry.  :(  I can't believe you are going through this again.  It's so unfair. 
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  • I am so sorry sweetie! I know how bad it sucks. I had the RPL testing and everything.

     I had the same thing! I did IVF in Sept BFN, IVF in December- chemical, everything was great! He added baby aspirin and Viola, ask about adding baby aspirin!

    Did you have RPL testing?

     

     

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  • I'm so sorry!  Sending big ((hugs)) your way.
  • Thanks for the kind words everyone!

    I was able to speak to my RE who explained that b/c I have polycystic ovaries, I produce a high amount of LH.  High amounts of LH can lead to miscarriages.  I'm on Metformin to lower my LH.  She said it's just 2 months of bad luck.  The important thing is to stay on the Metformin. 

    We're going to have to take off a few cycles as we're OOP and are OO$$$!!!  :)  IF + OOP sucks!!! 

    several failed cycles on clomid and lose dose injectibles, IUI #1 2009 - BFN IUI #2 2009 - BFP - boy/girl twins born at 31 weeks. IVF #1= BFN; FET #1 = c/p; FET #2 = c/p, FET #3 = negative, FET #4 = positive, baby stillborn at 24 weeks.  
  • I am so, so sorry, 

    The same thing happened to me for both of our FET's.  It was so devastating and I'm still pissed about it.  

    We are going to try one or two more times since we have 4 embryos left.   

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  • I am so sorry! Sending hugs.
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    I am so sorry. :(
  • Ali212Ali212 member
    I'm so sorry.  It's so difficult when there are no answers.  Thinking of you.
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  • ((HUGS)).  This stinks...I'm really sorry.
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  • I'm sorry!  I also hated hearing how "perfect" all of my numbers, b/w, etc was.  So where was my perfect baby???

    Hugs!

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  • t.birdt.bird member

    i hear ya. 2 FETs + 5 perfect blasts = nada. just $6k down the drain.

    i'm sorry :(

  • I'm so sorry
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  • Prior to the FET were you on any steroids and antibiotics?

     

    Have they run all of the tests to check for immune issues?

     

    Sorry for the chemical, I had one and it sucks, especially the waiting day after day for the next beta to see if it doubles.

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  • Oh hon, I'm so sorry...that's just beyond unfair :(
  • So so sorry :-( 
    Wife for 6 years. Mommy to Reese, 3, after IVF. IUI #1 5/07 = BFN. IVF #1 7/07 = BFP (Reese :-)) FET #1 7/10 = BFN. FET #2 4/11 = BFN. IUI #2 9/11 = BFN. IUI #3 (with donor sperm) 11/11 = BFN. IVF with DE 5/12 = BFP! Beta #1 = 222. Beta #2 = 613. First u/s 6/9 due to bleeding and cramping = saw one beautiful baby! EED 2/3/13 M/C on 6/12/12 at 6 weeks. At a crossroads with our next steps... Read about my journey at: www.clayandjobeth.blogspot.com
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    I'm so sorry :(  So unfair and my heart aches for you!  Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

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    I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))
    TTC Since July 2008.
    Me: PCOS DH: Low everything (MFI)
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  • I am so so sorry. It just sucks. So not fair

     



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    BFP # 2 - February 2011-(1500mg Met, HCG Injection) Missed M/C at 10w1d, discovered at 10w3d, D&C at 11w...RPL testing came back all normal.

    Trying again. June 2011 - Clomid/1500 mg Met / Baby Aspirin - BFFN!

    July 2011 Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    August 2011 - Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    September 2011 - Puregon/ 1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - BFFN!!!!

  • i'm so sorry, big hugs.

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  • I am so sorry.
    TTC since 8/07 DX - Severe MFI/azoospermia & MTHFR/ TESEs found sperm - 7/08 & 6/09/ 12/08 - IVF#1 - BFN/ 6/09 - IVF #2 - cancelled due to OHSS risk (had retrieval)/ 7/09 - FET #1 - BFN/ 9/09 - FET #2 - BFN/ 11/09 - IVF #3 with new RE cancelled twice - 10/09 & 11/09/ 1/10 - IVF #3 take 3 - BFN/ 4/10 - IVF #4 - first ever BFP on 5/13/10!!! 108 @ 10dp3dt/ 2nd beta 311!/ sono on 5/28/10 said TWINS!!!! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry. :( 
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  • I'm sorry :o(
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  • I'm so so sorry :(
    Severe MFI resulting in IVF/ICSI #1 in Nov 2007. BFP!!
    Our beautiful son was born July 2008.
    2010: 2 IVF's,1 FET = 2 BFN's, 1 c/p :(
    Feb 2011-Unmedicated FET= BFP!! DS #2 born Oct 2011!!.



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  • Thanks for all the kind words everyone!  This board is truly amazing!
    several failed cycles on clomid and lose dose injectibles, IUI #1 2009 - BFN IUI #2 2009 - BFP - boy/girl twins born at 31 weeks. IVF #1= BFN; FET #1 = c/p; FET #2 = c/p, FET #3 = negative, FET #4 = positive, baby stillborn at 24 weeks.  
  • I'm so incredibly sorry.

    Losses suck but losses on top of other losses and failed cycles is beyond cruel.

    Hugs to you. 

    Our IF journey: 1 m/c, 1 IVF with only 3 eggs retrieved yielding Dylan and a lost twin, 1 shocker unmedicated BFP resulting in Jace, 3 more unmedicated pregnancies ending in more losses.
    Total score: 6 pregnancies, 5 losses, 2 amazing blessings that I'm thankful for every single day.
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