Success after IF

It's over.

I was getting faint lines on those cheap Wondfo tests so I was pretty excited to test today at 13 dpo. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't shocked when a stark white test was staring back at me. I think it's safe to say that it's over. My heart is broken because I did everything right this time: lost weight, cut out caffeine completely, put the sperm directly into my freaking uterus (twice no less!), even had sex that night for good measure, took vitamins religiously-everything. 

This all just sucks so bad. $1,100 down the drain and nothing to show for it, lovely. Meanwhile stupid idiots who have the money (Snooki) are getting KU on accident. How is that remotely fair? 

On to injectibles. 

TTC#1=Feb 2009: 50 mg Clomid+Ovidrel shot+Metformin+Dexamethasone+TI=BFP!
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  • So sorry.  I know it is very disheartening :(  We did injectibles and were very successful.  GL to you and stay strong.
    TTC since 10/2010; 3 rounds of clomid 2011- BFNs; IUI #1: 6/2012 BFN; IUI #2: 10/2012 BFP, lost our little one around 6 weeks; IUI #3: 3/2012 BFP, Beta #1 13dpo: 464, Beta #2 18dpo: 3,727. U/s #1:5 sacs, 4 heartbeats! U/s 4/26: 5 heartbeats! BabyFruit Ticker
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  • I'm so sorry:(
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  • I'm sorry :( Keeping my fingers crossed for the next cycle!

    We got a BFN this cycle too.  I think we're done, I can't take this anymore.   

  • imagenikisnow:

    I'm sorry :( Keeping my fingers crossed for the next cycle!

    We got a BFN this cycle too.  I think we're done, I can't take this anymore.   

    We're doing injectibles 1-2 more times and then we're done as well.

    TTC#1=Feb 2009: 50 mg Clomid+Ovidrel shot+Metformin+Dexamethasone+TI=BFP!
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  • I hate bfns. Nothing worse than a stark white test. I'm sorry.
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    TTC #1: IUI #2 = BFP , Betas 550 (16 dpiui), 1523 (18 dpiui)
    Hypothyroid, LPD, FSH 13.0, TTC 2 yrs B4 BFP

    TTC #2: FSH 23, AMA, IUI 1, 2, 3 = BFN, IVF #1 = MC
    IVF #2 = BFP - Betas 194 (14dp2dt), 366 (16 dp2dt), 841 (18 dp2dt)
    (vanished twin ~7 weeks)
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  • I'm sorry :o( Injectibles did the trick for me with DS1. Hoping it works for you, too!
    10/09 Bravelle/ Ovidrel and IUI- BFP!!! Beta #1- 16dpiui 551 Beta # 2- 18dpiui 1400 Beta #3- 20dpiui 2800 It's a boy! Aiden James William born 7/12/10 Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Surprise BFP! Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I am so sorry :(  It really isn't fair. ((hugs))
    Married 9/19/09
    Me (32) Dx PCOS, DH (32) SA = Normal/mild morph issues
    TTC#5 July 2017 - 3rd cycle TTC = BFP on 11/12/17 at 9dpo Beta #1 = 96 at 13dpo - Beta #2 = 207 at 15dpo
    TTC#1  starting Nov. 2009
    3 rounds of Clomid + TI and 3 rounds of 7.5 mg Femara + IUI before our BFP on 11/8/10 at 12dpiui
    TTC #2 3rd cycle of Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 4 follies = BFP on 10/12/12 
    TTC#3 July 2014 - Metformin +TI = BFP at 9dpo - Twins, one baby lost at 5.5 weeks 
    Macy Annabelle born at 37w4d on 4/29/15.  Diagnosed with Cri du Chat and passed away on 6/6/15.  Forever in our hearts.
    TTC#4 3rd cycle of Metformin + Femara 7.5mg+Ovidrel+TI = 3 follies = BFP on 12/24/16
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  • Oh lady I am so sorry :(

    Injectables suck! I spent $1200 a cycle, I was lucky enough to get a few donations, but damn I did 4 of those!

     

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  • I'm so sorry!  Sending big ((Hugs)) your way.
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    Oh lady I am so sorry :(

    Injectables suck! I spent $1200 a cycle, I was lucky enough to get a few donations, but damn I did 4 of those!

     

    How did you get donations? Through the OOP Donation on this board?

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  • DrRxDrRx member
    I'm sorry. BFNs suck big time. :(
    TTC Since July 2008.
    Me: PCOS DH: Low everything (MFI)
    Clomid with TI x 3 2010 BFN
    Clomid+IUI+Ovidrel 2010 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 2011
    9/8/11 Beta #1: 2082!! 9/19/11 Beta#2 34,689!! U/S 9/22/11 HR 127! 11/8/11 HR 150! 12/6/11 HR 136! 12/14/11 HR 139! Born at 26w2d on 2/4/2012! After 83 days in the NICU, Adalyn came home on 4/26/12!
    FET 1 3/2013 BFN
    FET 2 5/2013 BFN
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  • It's not fair sweetie.  I'm so sorry this cycle didn't work for you.  Keep pushing forward.  Big hugs.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • I'm sorry :(  But our first injectible cycle was a success, so maybe that will be true for you as well!
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    I'm so so sorry. :(

    It's not fair, not fair at all. :(

    Pregnant with #1 with PCOS and LPD, success with mostly naturopathic treatments
    Our Thanksgiving Day baby 11/22/07

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    Pregnant with #2 with LPD, uterine polyp/hysteroscopy, DOR (AMH = 0.17), 2 c/ps
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  • I'm so sorry.  :(
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  • I'm sorry hon. BFNs suck. (((((hugs)))))
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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • I am sorry.


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    2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
    TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
    Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14

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  • RadlerRadler member

    I'm so sorry.

    I hope the next cycle is the one for you. It is your turn, I think.

    After 7 failed IUIs, IVF w/ ICSI worked!!

    I am thankful every day for my miracle after infertility.

    And thrilled to be pregnant again after FET!

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  • Ali212Ali212 member
    I'm so sorry.  Hugs.
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  • (HUGS).  I'm so sorry. :(
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  • Thanks everyone.
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  • I'm so sorry!! I POASed so many times and got nothing, I hate doing it!! Sending you hugs and thoughts and prayers for your future BFP!!
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  • kgs0505kgs0505 member
    I'm so sorry :(

    TTC since May 2006. After 3 failed Clomid cycles, 2 failed Injectibles/IUIs, 2 failed IVFs and 1 failed FET, we moved on to adoption! 

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    Last ditch FET resulted in BFP, and identical twin girls!

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  • MAK06MAK06 member

    I am so incredibly sorry :(  

    It's infuriating when you think of all the people that it happens for so easily while we have to struggle.  So sorry you're going through this ... HUGS!! 


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  • I'm so sorry. 
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  • I am so sorry. I was truly optimistic that you were going to have a BFP. :(
    DS (7 years old) from FET in 2010
    DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
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  • I am so sorry.  :(
    After 2 years and 6 IUIs, we did it with IVF w/ ICSI!
    BFP with no treatment!
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  • I am so sorry.  
    Years of trying and treatment, IVF#1 brought us our darling C!
  • ardillaardilla member
    I'm sorry. BFNs are even worse when you have so much money involved.
    After 20 months TTC with PCOS, we were blessed with twins!
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  • I am so sorry. It just sucks big time. 


    Dx: PCOS, Anovulation, RPL
    Born via emergency c/s February 9, 2008 - 9lbs, 3 oz!!!!

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    TTC# 2 since February 2010 - BFP #1 Sept 2010-(5mg Femara, 1500mg Met, Ovridel) Missed M/C at 10w2d, discovered at 13w2d, D&C at 14w

    BFP # 2 - February 2011-(1500mg Met, HCG Injection) Missed M/C at 10w1d, discovered at 10w3d, D&C at 11w...RPL testing came back all normal.

    Trying again. June 2011 - Clomid/1500 mg Met / Baby Aspirin - BFFN!

    July 2011 Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    August 2011 - Femara/1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - c/p

    September 2011 - Puregon/ 1500mg Met/ Baby Aspirin - BFFN!!!!

  • I'm so sorry.
    Sept. 2010: IVF #1= BFP; May 2012: FET #1= blighted ovum, D&C; FET #2= ?? Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • ::hugs::

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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