TTC After a Loss

Anyone else check their potential due-date

When TTC? I always enter in the first day of my most recent AF to find out what my potential due date might be. I think I do it because it gives me something to be excited about during the 2WW. Sometimes I also check the Chinese Gender Predictor, but I am trying not to do that this cycle.
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Re: Anyone else check their potential due-date

  • always...

     

    ETA:i also try to think of reasons why this date is special and why it will work... my ER was supposed to be 5/19... my EDD would have been 2/9/13.  my bday is the 29th and Shauns is the 31st... just reverse Shauns and you have 2913... lol how ridiculous... now it will be 2/16. we were married on the 16th and Brian Leetch wore #2... who does this?  i do!

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  • Guilty. Of last AF and potential O date.
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    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
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  • I do. FF makes it really easy because it tells me as soon as I ovulate!

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  • Guilty Guilty!!! I actually just checked what my DD would be if i got a BFP this cycle (CD 6 now) and it wold actually be on my bday next year!! I told DH and he said we would go the extra mile this cycle!! lol. But I do check every month!
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  • Of course. I'd be due January 31st and would have a girl. You know... just off the top of my head. LOL!
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  • I did this like 5 minutes ago :)
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  • I'll see your due date and raise you an "I mark every milestone on the calendar at the beginning of each cycle."

    Yep, every time I get AF, I mark when I'll be 8 weeks (first U/S), 12 weeks (NT/start telling people), 20 weeks (anatomy scan), due date, and other points of reference so that when we make plans for future events, I can quickly reference my calendar and think to myself, I'll be XX weeks at that point.

    Pretty sure that's a combo of my Type A personality and some form of masochism? Good thing I use a Google calendar and it's easy to delete and start over the next cycle (sigh).

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    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

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  • I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.
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  • Guilty. So glad I'm not the only one =)

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    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

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  • imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

    Ditto!

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    BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
    BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
    BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
     

  • I always check and I wish I didn't.  

    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
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    9/17 CP 
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  • imageElle jM:

    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

    LMAO! Boy, Jan 28th!

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    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • I did it yesterday as soon as AF arrived. It helps to ease the disappointment and have something to look forward to.

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  • I did but got pretty depressed & frustrated so I stopped.
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  • every month

     

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  • imageminicheezburg:
    imageElle jM:

    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

    LMAO! Boy, Jan 28th!

    Ha, ha! Boy 1/30! I had to look....
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    *raises hand* Yep...guilty as charged...
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  • We get to TTC next cycle and I have already used the calculator. That was a mistake EDD is same day I miscarried. Even more crazy cakes its the same day I went into labor with DD @ 27 weeks.  I really hate March 10th
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    BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
    BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
    BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
    BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
    BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

    BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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    imageminicheezburg:
    imageElle jM:

    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

    LMAO! Boy, Jan 28th!

    Ha, ha! Boy 1/30! I had to look....

    OMG! I am keeping my fingers crossed for us. Within days of eachother. Crazy.

    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • I'm guilty too!! Embarrassed Like others have said, it gives me something to look forward to, even if its all ripped away from me 2 weeks later.
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  • Absolutely!
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  • imageRosiePeare:
    Don't best yourselves up for doing it, girls--be happy you can! Since I haven't had a period since October, well, EDDs just make me want to cry.

    Sweet lady, (hugs). You've been on my mind a lot.  

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  • DaisyZHDaisyZH member
    I totally do this too, although usually it's closer to the end of my cycle.  I start thinking *maybe* this is it, I look up EDD, Chinese gender prediction chart and like one of the PPs I look at when my first ultrasound would be, when the first trimester would be over . . . I will admit this past month I even looked at the January 2013 birth month board thinking maybe, just maybe I would be joining - but no.  Embarrassed


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  • imageAngnShaun:

    always...

     

    ETA:i also try to think of reasons why this date is special and why it will work... my ER was supposed to be 5/19... my EDD would have been 2/9/13.  my bday is the 29th and Shauns is the 31st... just reverse Shauns and you have 2913... lol how ridiculous... now it will be 2/16. we were married on the 16th and Brian Leetch wore #2... who does this?  i do!

    I do this too. I also check it over and over. I use the baby center due date calculator to see all the milestone dates too and think about where I'll be during all of them. It's terrible. 

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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member

    ALL.THE.TIME. 

    ::sigh:: 

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  • BabytoVBabytoV member
    I do....January 31st, 2013....maybe?
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  • imageminicheezburg:
    imageElle jM:

    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

    LMAO! Boy, Jan 28th!

    Not yet confirmed with CH's, but I think I'll be 1/28 too! 

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  • omg, yes!  I have  pregnancy wheel app on my iphone.
    Me:32 dx anovulation, unknown reason DH:41
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    BFP #2 5/19/12 EDD 1/27/13 No hb @ 7w1d 6/11/12 1st dose cytotec 6/18/12 8w1d 
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  • I don't have a cycle to speak of now, so no.  But, I also didn't do this before my loss,or even after it (back when I still had cycles).  I think it would  have freaked me out and left me disappointed every month, but everyone is different.
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  • imageGatorBaby2012:
    imageminicheezburg:
    imageElle jM:

    imageminicheezburg:
    I do, I check my possible EDD, use the gender predictor and even start menatlly planning things. I am a planner.

     

    I do this exactly.  Incase you were wondering, my EDD would be 1/26 and it would be a girl.  I think most of us do this!

    LMAO! Boy, Jan 28th!

    Not yet confirmed with CH's, but I think I'll be 1/28 too! 

    Stupid FF won't give me CH's yet. Then again I have O'd anywhere from CD14 to CD 22. We shall see. We have quite the group going if we are all lucky!

    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • Me...every flucking cycle.  I've even gone so far as to try to "guess" when my next period will start to try and figure out when we would be able to have another one, since I'm still bleeding from my m/c an haven't had a period yet! 
    Sad yes...but it makes me feel more "in control" when I'm TOTALLY not! 
    Plus, I'm a little type A...ok maybe a lot. 
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  • imageHopingforChange:
    I don't have a cycle to speak of now, so no.  But, I also didn't do this before my loss,or even after it (back when I still had cycles).  I think it would  have freaked me out and left me disappointed every month, but everyone is different.

    Oh, yes, it is 100% disappointing! A total train wreck. Yet I still do it. 

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  • I was ::thisclose:: to doing that this past cycle, but I told myself, "No, that would be really insane." And now that I know others do it, I probably won't be able to hold back from now on!
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  • rebekamrebekam member
    ::Raises Hand:: I have done this! Like literally before I read this post... Jan. 21st...
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    imageHopingforChange:
    I don't have a cycle to speak of now, so no.  But, I also didn't do this before my loss,or even after it (back when I still had cycles).  I think it would  have freaked me out and left me disappointed every month, but everyone is different.

    Oh, yes, it is 100% disappointing! A total train wreck. Yet I still do it. 

     Well, I definitely have my own set of self-destructive/demoralizing behaviors, just not this particular one!  It's crazy what we do to ourselves, huh?  Wink

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