I'm having a similar problem -- I loved my old OB (in the end) but have moved to a different state and am nervous about finding someone I like. I looked for lists of "best of" for my area, checked which ones were located close by and took my insurance, and then looked up reviews on them online. I found someone that way who I am going to try.
Re: Choosing a New OB
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