a notice to all non term babies!

WearingRed · May 2012

I don't want to hear of any more pre term births on this board. We Pgal moms have had enough heartaches and don't need the stress of any more nicu stories. (that doesn't mean I don't want to know if it happens) but I say enough is enough! All babies so are not term yet need to stay the BLEEP where the are!

nikkks84 · May 2012

well said!! ditto

adoxyinherear · May 2012

Listen up, babies.

october_artist · May 2012

Regarding premies - I agree!

Now just send a little of that L&D dust over to those of us who have a LO that is getting too comfy! lol [Can you sense my fear of being induced...

I hope she starts something on her own soon!]

adoxyinherear · May 2012

october_artist:
Regarding premies - I agree!

Now just send a little of that L&D dust over to those of us who have a LO that is getting too comfy! lol [Can you sense my fear of being induced... I hope she starts something on her own soon!]

Come on, baby Clementine! Make it easy on your mama

liesam · May 2012

Agreed!! Stay put babies!!

Missa_g · May 2012

I know you mean well but as a preemie mom this stings. Those of us that deliver early already suffer a lot of guilt for not carrying our babies to term. The idea that our struggles stress others out hurts. Imagine if someone said, "No more miscarriages!" on this board. We all really hope that's true but saying it makes it worse for those it happens to.

Eveanyn · May 2012

Hear, hear!

WearingRed · May 2012

Missa_g:
I know you mean well but as a preemie mom this stings. Those of us that deliver early already suffer a lot of guilt for not carrying our babies to term. The idea that our struggles stress others out hurts. Imagine if someone said, "No more miscarriages!" on this board. We all really hope that's true but saying it makes it worse for those it happens to.

this wasn't meant as a slap in the face. I am sorry that it came across that way. That is why I added I still wanted to see if when they happen. It was meant was like a reverse eviction notice. I know no one has control of these things. Just like severing a eviction notices doesn't mean that your baby will come in the next two weeks. And if someone said no more miscarriages I would get that they were just fed up with the way the board was going. And trying to tell whoever or whatever god or entity was in control that we see what they are doing and we dont like it. this was what I was trying to do. That is why I told the babies to stay put and not the moms not to go into labor. I am sorry I upset you but I am not going to retract my post I stand by what I said. I meant we been through enough and did need any more of our friends to be hurting anymore. I wasn't saying I am hurt by the post. I just don't want anyone else to have to deal with this. I am a sister of a preemie and know the pain the families go through. Also I am sending you thoughts and prayers that you don't have to ever deal with this again!!!!