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Ok I finally have a pregnancy peeve

LottaLattesLottaLattes member
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This has now happened twice and I don't normally care about this type of thing but I finally found one to be offended by.

People who I talk with about being obviously pregnant (was joking with the coffee shop baristas about acting offended like I wasn't actually pregnant) and then they brought up someone else and said, "but you know l, she is tiny and all belly." So me and my fat ass got all offended, I realize I tend to do pregnancy all over but who the hell would point that out to someone??  I mean, my 7yo did but I denounced him from my lineage and told him to never say such things again...he's a kid so at least has an excuse.

Happened before as well, second time sealed the annoyance.

(And I have gained just over 50 pounds, and had gained 20 with my losses so sure, I am heavier right now but as with my previous two full pregnancies WILL lose the dang weight, ugh).

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Re: Ok I finally have a pregnancy peeve

  • Medic99Medic99 member
    I hate when people say such things. I secretly pray it came out wrong or that they are just lacking in people skills. Either way, it can be very hurtful and annoying. My saying now is pay no mind to simple minds. I am huge right now, I don't have the cute little belly thing going on. I have a long torso and I was well over my target weight when I got pregnant. I am to the point that I don't care what people think of my belly, I am just so glad and grateful I am growing a baby finally. They can literally go run into a parked car for all I care. I am sorry this happened to you.
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  • Peggy OlsonPeggy Olson member

    People suck. I'm sure you're beautiful no matter how pregnant you look. Everyone carries pregnancy differently and while some people look like they swallowed a basketball, that's not how everyone looks. I'm sure you look great and you'll lose whatever weight you gain PP. I'm sorry you have encountered such rude people. 


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  • mrsgaines100mrsgaines100
    That was a stupidass thing to say.  Idiots.  I bet you look freaking awesome.  Your complaint=valid!
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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    Oh, gosh, it sounds like something they said and might immediately have realized what a jerk move it was! *hugs* I'm sorry.
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  • s0ulchickens0ulchicken member

    Burp. 'Scuse me

     
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    Oh Lotta, I am "de-lurking" just to tell you that lady stinks!!! You are BEAUTIFUL, and that lady must be batty. Sorry you had to deal with that rude barista, and I hope that when she gets pregnant, she gains weight EVERYWHERE!! Smile friend, you are soooo close to bringing those sweet baby boys home!
     
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  • LottaLattesLottaLattes member

    images0ulchicken:
    Oh Lotta, I am "de-lurking" just to tell you that lady stinks!!! You are BEAUTIFUL, and that lady must be batty. Sorry you had to deal with that rude barista, and I hope that when she gets pregnant, she gains weight EVERYWHERE!! Smile friend, you are soooo close to bringing those sweet baby boys home!

    I am so, so glad to see you here, chica!  I keep meaning to txt you back but remember at like 10pm, which is pretty late for you ha.  Xx

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    imageLottaLattes:

    images0ulchicken:
    Oh Lotta, I am "de-lurking" just to tell you that lady stinks!!! You are BEAUTIFUL, and that lady must be batty. Sorry you had to deal with that rude barista, and I hope that when she gets pregnant, she gains weight EVERYWHERE!! Smile friend, you are soooo close to bringing those sweet baby boys home!

    I am so, so glad to see you here, chica!  I keep meaning to txt you back but remember at like 10pm, which is pretty late for you ha.  Xx

     

    Haha, me too! Can I just say that I think an unlisted side effect of the Progesterone is hot flashes? I am sitting in my office, and I am sweating as much as the lady down the hall who is going through menopause!!!

     
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