So I have already purchased all of what I need for baby....my shower is in 2 weeks and is hosted by my a friend...she invited 2 of my close friends from childhood and they both are stay at home moms. The host basically told me that they both want to come to the shower but cannot afford a gift. I told the host that it didn't matter to me, if they brought a gift or not, they could still come, my host was really annoyed at them because she feels that it defeats the purpose of a shower. My host feels like these 2 women are selfish and rude (she feels they could have put in the effort to make something or get something that isnt expensive, since these 2 women are considered my close friends.) I can see her point...My shower date is scheduled really late...37 weeks into my pregnancy. I purchased everything on my own, so I think this is moot point...what do you all think?