I am on day 11 of prodromal and I really am reaching a breaking point.
I have not slept in days, I can barely function during the day, and am so tired of the mind games of this stupid never ending labor!
Has anyone had this? What did you do to finally "break into" natural labor?
I have tried every possible natural thing to get labor started (as suggested by my midwife) but I don't know how much longer I can take this.
Re: Prodromal Labor-someone help me before I jump off a cliff...
For sleep my MW suggested a glass of wine and a Tylenol PM. It helped a little bit.
I started prodromal labor on my due date and made a bunch of cookies thinking I'd be in labor soon. I was going to take them to the birth center. I ate them all over the next ten days. DH may have had a few...but mostly me. It is really frustrating and there isn't much you can really do other than to try hard to focus on something else.
Acupuncture usually works pretty well, also good hydration, and all the stuff on spinningbabies.com
If there's anxiety or fear involved, doing a fear release is helpful. Some people go prodromal because they aren't mentally ready.
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I thought I had it bad because mine went to a day and a half! I wish I had some ideas for you, but I have no idea why mine suddenly decided to progress instead of stalling out yet again. I had been eating tons of eggplant and pineapple and would bounce on my ball or walk when I felt the most crampy, and that seemed to encourage the dilation and get me more bloody show. If you can find anything that seems to get you more dilated, I'd say to try that.
Good luck! I hope you get some rest and/or active labor soon!
This sounds like something I would do.
That sounds dreadful. I remember having it on and off for a week or so with #2. I kept calling the midwife to give a heads up thinking it was really going each time, and then after 4 or 5 hours it would stall out. I tried to convince myself I had just peed my pants when my water finally broke because I didn't want to call my MW again if this wasn't really it.
I second what PP said about a small glass of wine to relax. Try to get some good rest and then perhaps try nipple stimulation or castor oil if your MW is okay with it.
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