TTC After a Loss

early intro

I just wanted to introduce myself, be it a little early since we won't actually be TTC for a couple cycles, but I feel emotionally ready to move on from the m/c board and looking forward to the next step.

About us: DH and I are high school sweet-hearts (hence the SN), we got married in 2007, had DD in 2009 and got our 2nd BFP on 4/4. I had spotting off and on and my doctor was monitoring us pretty closely with ultrasounds, but the pregnancy ended with a natural m/c. We had actually planned on a D&C for today, but didn't need to go through with it.

I feel pretty good emotionally, actually better than I would have anticipated and ready to move on. I know the next few months will bring good days and bad, but just wanted to say hi since I will be lurking and getting familiar with the board before we start TTC again.

I am thankful to have a board to join that will be familiar with what is in store for me. 

 ETA: I read through the blog and wanted to say thanks! Makes it easier to join a new board when you can get all that info in one place!

BFP#1 10/8/08 DD born 6/24/09
Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
BFP#2 4/4/12 EDD: 12/13/12 m/c at 8w2d
BFP#3 8/18/12 EDD: 5/1/13 Beta @13DPO: 61, Beta@15DPO: 216
Baby BOY!
Lilypie Pregnancy tickers

Re: early intro

  • Welcome to the board. I'm sorry for your loss.

    TTC since April 2010
    BFP #1 – March 2011, missed m/c April 2011
    BFP #2 – October 2011, m/c November 2011
    Surprise BFP #3 – December 2011, diagnosed as cornual, terminated January 2012
    BFP #4 – June 2012, m/c July 2012
    Diagnosed with bicornuate ute and MTHR gene mutation
    BFP #5 – October 2012, missed m/c November 2012
    BFP #6 – January 2013, m/c March 2013
    No longer TTC. Diagnosis: Hostile ute. Heartbroken and bitter. Pursuing surrogacy.
    June 2013 - Carrier found! Could this really happen?!
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    ~All AL always welcome~

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  • I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome.

  • kiki4kiki4 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    BFP 1/19/12 No heartbeat at 7w4d 3rd dose Cytotec 3/1/12
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  • pb127pb127 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome here, I hope you find some support and comfort here.
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • Elle jMElle jM member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome!
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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    Welsome to the board.  I am sorry for your loss.

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    BFP#1 11/12/11 ~ No heartbeat 12/12/11 ~ D&C 12/19/11
    BFP#2 3/25/12 ~ Heartbeat 141 4/16/12 ~ No heartbeat 4/25/12 ~ D&C 04/30/12 
    BFP#3 7/16/12 ~ EDD 3/26/13 ~ It's a BOY ~ DOB 2/26/13






  • So sorry for your loss.
    BFP #1 3-1-12 EDD 11-11-12 Natural Miscarriage 3-19-12 / BFP #2 6-14-12 EDD 2-24-13 Chemical Pregnancy 6-20-12 / Homozygous a1298c MTHFR / Diagnosed Hypothyroidism (Hashimotos) / BFP #3 8-12-12; EDD 4-25-13 IT'S A GIRL! BabyFetus Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • ::Waves:: I recognize you from the December board. Sorry to see you here. :( We're (obvs) not ttc yet either but I felt more hopeful posting here rather than MC/PL.
    Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
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    ::Waves:: I recognize you from the December board. Sorry to see you here. :( We're (obvs) not ttc yet either but I felt more hopeful posting here rather than MC/PL.

    Sad to see you here, but kind of nice to have a familiar "face" please feel free to PM me anytime, since we are likely looking at similar timelines!! 

    BFP#1 10/8/08 DD born 6/24/09
    Lilypie Fourth Birthday tickers
    BFP#2 4/4/12 EDD: 12/13/12 m/c at 8w2d
    BFP#3 8/18/12 EDD: 5/1/13 Beta @13DPO: 61, Beta@15DPO: 216
    Baby BOY!
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I'm sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. I'm TTA for awhile, too, but will still be hanging around the board Smile
    BFP #1 1.2.12 EDD 9.15.12 :: mmc 2.22.12. / d&c 2.23.12 :: 2nd d&c 3.16.12

    "there is no foot so small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world"

    BFP #2 2.27.13 EDD 11.8.13 Grow, baby, grow!

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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers Anniversary

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    ~ all ALers welcome ~

  • Hi! I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. 
    Married my best friend May 24, 2008
    BFP #1 9/1/11, EDD 5/15/12, Missed M/C at 9w4d, discovered at 11w3d, D&C 11/2/11
    BFP #2 6/20/12, Baby Boy born 3/2/13
    BFP #3 October 2016, EDD 6/11/17
  • Welcome, and sorry for your loss. There are many women here who are TTA for various reasons, various lengths of time, so you're in good company. I hope the time flies quickly for you.
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
  • Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss. This is a great place to give and get support.
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
  • welcome. hugs

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • Welcome to the board, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

  • Welcome to the board.  I am so sorry for your loss.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie - (B9PH)

     

    Lilypie - (0YVF)
     TTC since 11/2009; Lap/HSG/Hysteroscopy: 5/2011 (endometriosis - removed; endocervical polyp - removed; high pressure in bilateral tubes - cleared)

    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

  • I'm sorry for your loss.  (((hugs))) and welcome to the board!
    BFP #1:  8/10/11 EDD: 4/9/12 Natural miscarriage @ 7 weeks: 8/20/11
    BFP #2: 8/31/12 EDD: 5/18/13 Chemical pregnancy: 9/4/12
    BFP #3:  5/17/13  EDD: 1/24/14 Loss at 5 weeks: 5/29/13

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    Lots of testing, all clear with the exception of compound heterozygous for the MTHFR mutation. 

    Cycle 1: Femara, trigger shot, Bravelle added due to slow response = BFN
    Cycle 2: Cancelled due to two cysts =(
    Cycle 3: Femara, Bravelle, trigger shot and IUI = BFP then loss #3
    Cycle 4: Femara, Follistim, trigger shot and IUI = BFP!  EDD: 6/7/14

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    PGAL/PAL welcome
  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    welcome to the board!
    TTC since 4/28/07
    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive Event tickers


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  • ChloBubChloBub member
    (((((HUGS)))))) I'm so sorry for your loss, but you've come to the right place. Welcome. I know you'll find this board full of amazing women.
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    BFP#1: 9-13-11 EDD: 5-26-12 MMC: 11-4-11 D&C: 11-8-11
    BFP#2: 7-6-12 Elizabeth Faye ("Zuzu") born 3-21-13
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