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i am so happy for them but some of the stuff that was said regarding IVF annoyed me.

first of all when they did the transfer a couple of episodes ago they kept saying implantation!  THEY ARE NOT IMPLANTING EMBRYOS!!! They are TRANSFERRING THEM!!!!!  If RE's could implant embryos there would never been BFN's

ok, then this past week, they kept talking about false positives with IVF because of all the hormones!  WTF!!!  I've been on these board for over 4 years and have seen countless IVF cycles and not once have a I seen a false positive!!  seriously, where did they get this info?

 

 

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It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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    imagetheworms:

    i am so happy for them but some of the stuff that was said regarding IVF annoyed me.

    first of all when they did the transfer a couple of episodes ago they kept saying implantation!  THEY ARE NOT IMPLANTING EMBRYOS!!! They are TRANSFERRING THEM!!!!!  If RE's could implant embryos there would never been BFN's

    ok, then this past week, they kept talking about false positives with IVF because of all the hormones!  WTF!!!  I've been on these board for over 4 years and have seen countless IVF cycles and not once have a I seen a false positive!!  seriously, where did they get this info?

     

    The false-positive comment annoyed the pi$$ out of me too!  And to hear it from Bill himself, I was really shocked.  I thought he would've been more educated about IVF than that!

    But yes, bottom line is I am very happy for them. 

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    I heard Anne Curry use the word "implant" when they were on the Today show and I wanted to reach through the TV screen and slap her. I wish G&B would've corrected her...Angry

    And I don't get the false positive thing either...I've never heard of that happening if you test at 9dp5dt or 11dp3dt. 

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    imagetheworms:

    i am so happy for them but some of the stuff that was said regarding IVF annoyed me.

    first of all when they did the transfer a couple of episodes ago they kept saying implantation!  THEY ARE NOT IMPLANTING EMBRYOS!!! They are TRANSFERRING THEM!!!!!  If RE's could implant embryos there would never been BFN's

    ok, then this past week, they kept talking about false positives with IVF because of all the hormones!  WTF!!!  I've been on these board for over 4 years and have seen countless IVF cycles and not once have a I seen a false positive!!  seriously, where did they get this info?

     

     

     Haha!! I said these exact things to DH during each episode! But yes, I am thrilled for them! 

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    imagetheworms:

    i am so happy for them but some of the stuff that was said regarding IVF annoyed me.

    first of all when they did the transfer a couple of episodes ago they kept saying implantation!  THEY ARE NOT IMPLANTING EMBRYOS!!! They are TRANSFERRING THEM!!!!!  If RE's could implant embryos there would never been BFN's

    ok, then this past week, they kept talking about false positives with IVF because of all the hormones!  WTF!!!  I've been on these board for over 4 years and have seen countless IVF cycles and not once have a I seen a false positive!!  seriously, where did they get this info?

     

    I agree with the bolded. I haven't watched this week's episode yet, but last week I litterally cringed every time they said they implanted the embryos. It was like nails on a chalk board. I even yelled at the TV at one point... Embarrassed

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    our house is pretty open so while I am watching downstairs H is up on his computer he can hear the tv.  On Tuesdays episode even he yelled down "that's not true about the hormones"... he is learning.

    The implanting commment is so annoying but I notice that anyone who hasnt gone thru IVF seems to use that word.  Oh to be fertile and never have to know...

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    LOL - I was just complaning to DH about both of those things!!!  I was like what the f is he talking about ?!?

    Still very happy for them though. 

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
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    I'm so glad I'm not the only one who gets super annoyed at those inaccuracies!  If you are going to speak publicly about IVF, please for the love of God know what you are talking about!!!
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    Both of those items drove me crazy, especially when they kept saying implanting.

    They are transfered-not implanted!

    And maybe they meant a chemical pregnant instead of a false positive? B/c yeah, I don't think there is such a thing unless you test right after your trigger.

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    I am happy for them, but was also super annoyed every time they said implant. I WTF.

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    Im happy for them too!

    At this stage in the game, they should know about the trigger. Or heat mean a cp and not get it. My dh does not know ANYTHING about Ivf, and I did 3 fresh and 1 frozen in a yrs time.  They are dense! 

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    I completely agree. But was I the only person annoyed when the doctor said "yup, she's super fertile" about the surrogate. as if the only problem was Guilianna wasn't capable of of carrying her own babies. Even if that was the case, what the F is the point of saying that to her!! I got really pissed at that.
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    imageNMscubagirl:
    I completely agree. But was I the only person annoyed when the doctor said "yup, she's super fertile" about the surrogate. as if the only problem was Guilianna wasn't capable of of carrying her own babies. Even if that was the case, what the F is the point of saying that to her!! I got really pissed at that.

    No this totally annoyed me too - I mean it wasn't even her freaking egg.  I would have been upset if I was Guilanna.

     

    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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    imagemdluv21:

    imageNMscubagirl:
    I completely agree. But was I the only person annoyed when the doctor said "yup, she's super fertile" about the surrogate. as if the only problem was Guilianna wasn't capable of of carrying her own babies. Even if that was the case, what the F is the point of saying that to her!! I got really pissed at that.

    No this totally annoyed me too - I mean it wasn't even her freaking egg.  I would have been upset if I was Guilanna.

     

    that was fuckking annoying!  seriously, do people even think?

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
    MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
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    imagetheworms:

    i am so happy for them but some of the stuff that was said regarding IVF annoyed me.

    first of all when they did the transfer a couple of episodes ago they kept saying implantation!  THEY ARE NOT IMPLANTING EMBRYOS!!! They are TRANSFERRING THEM!!!!!  If RE's could implant embryos there would never been BFN's

    ok, then this past week, they kept talking about false positives with IVF because of all the hormones!  WTF!!!  I've been on these board for over 4 years and have seen countless IVF cycles and not once have a I seen a false positive!!  seriously, where did they get this info?


     

     

     This drove me crazy too.  The only reason I could think of someone getting a false positive would have been if there was a trigger.  But, the surrogate wouldn't have had a trigger.  You would think they would know that.  My guess is they are either super dense or were trying to add drama for the tv show.

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    imagedancinaggie:
    I'm so glad I'm not the only one who gets super annoyed at those inaccuracies!  If you are going to speak publicly about IVF, please for the love of God know what you are talking about!!!

    This!  It's beyond annoying.  

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