I'm new here :(

MelisS5579 · November 2008

Hi everyone. I'm sad to be here today b/c I found out I had a miscarriage over the weekend. I just started passing it naturally last night & today I have horrible cramps. I'm feeling a bunch of different emotions right now, but the most prominent one is guilt. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but it's hard to feel that way when all you want is a family with your husband.

str8ota · November 2008

I'm so sorry you are here and that you are going through this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and please know we are here to help.

luckyangel · November 2008

I am so sorry that you had to join our ranks. We are ALL here for you. The women on this board have been amazing to me. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything at all, let me know.

superaunt · November 2008

I'm so sorry for your loss and I really hope you can let go of the guilt because this was completely out of your hands. ::hugs::

shellyrmml · November 2008

I am so very sorry that you are joining us on this board. I will keep you and your DH in my thoughts and prayers.

Shelly

melodylb · November 2008

I am so sorry you had to join us here. You are in my thoughts. I felt guilty too, like I did something wrong. I know that I didn't but you can't help but feel that way. This board is awesome if you just have sad days or need someone to talk to.

jeffrae · November 2008

I am so very sorry for your loss. Whatever emotions you are feeling are normal and they will come and go and come back again at random times. <<hugs>>

DWBrideMar2008 · November 2008

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please let us know how we can help. For what it's worth I felt guilty too. I racked my brain thinking of things I could have done to cause my m/c, but in the end I came to terms with the fact that there isn't anything I did or could have done to save my baby. Take care.

KCC78 · November 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. It has been a while since I've been on this board but I wanted to let you know that it will get better. Take the time you need to grieve and do not blame yourself. It's nothing that you did wrong. ((hugs))

MrsA2Be · November 2008

I totally understand your feelings of guilt - I had the same ones. I am sorry that you have to join us, but am glad you posted here and welcome you to the board. The ladies here are very supportive.