At my 36 week appt yesterday the midwife I saw told me that baby is posterior and to look at spinningbabies.com (which I was already thinking as she said it), and suggested some exercises. So for the rest of the day yesterday and until late this afternoon, I wasn't lounging at all. But I'm in pain in most any other position. It hurts to stand. It hurts to sit on my exercise ball. It hurts for me to be on my hands and knees and I have a toddler to chase around. When I CAN relax, what kind of position is best. I REALLY just want to sit back into the couch and put my swollen feet up.
Also- when I was reading about posterior babies, it said that most of the time babies correct their position once labor begins anyway, so while I want to do anything I can to help him get into an optimal position, how much do I really need to worry about it?
Re: SpinningBabies.com & posterior baby
DS2 (born at home) 7/09
DD1 (born at home) 1/12
the spinning babies exercises are horrible, imho. I did one (the inversion?) and was in so much pain, it was awful.
Both my babies were OP. DS1 was a c-section because of it. With DS2, at the advice of a friend, I saw a chiropractor. I was skeptical to say the least. But without knowing my history at all, the chiro immediately found the site of an old injury in my sciatic joint and said that it was twisting my pelvis, which caused my babies to be unable to settle properly in my pelvis. She did a few simple stretches on me, digging her fingers into certain ligaments. She didn't even "crack" anything which was good because I was afraid of that. I left still skeptical, but as soon as I got home I noticed that for the first time in either pregnancy, baby was OA. I went every 10 days or so because I noticed if I didn't, baby returned to OP. With regular visits, baby stayed OA and I had a very fast and uncomplicated birth.
Good luck!
eta: I brought DS1 with me to my appointments- I don't think you'll need a babysitter. My son had fun playing with her skeleton models, lol.
I would sit on the floor or a yoga ball, or else lie down on my side if I wanted to lounge.
Was your first OP? I don't think there's any very conclusive studies about OP babies, more just anecdata. hth
ETA: I would take my older son with me to the chiropractor, the appts were usually pretty quick, and she welcomed kids.
DS2 - Oct 2010 (my VBAC baby!)
Both of my babies were OP and both turned during labor. Baby #2 pretty much turned at the last minute- we like to say she cork screwed her way out. :b
The polar bear position can be helpful once you are in labor.
GL
It was also ok for me to bring my kid to chiro appointments. They usually don't take very long, although the initial visit may be a bit longer. I'd try that as a first step, even if he stays OP maybe you won't hurt anymore in every other position!
I think you're right though that there's only so much you can do and baby's going to choose their position. My first was born OP. She only went that way the night I went into labor, so even if a babe is not OP they can go there during labor. She never turned, and came out facing up. It was a LOT of work to push her out, her head had to do sooo much molding to fit that way. It took a lot of time and effort in pushing, and they said that if I had had an epidural I probably would not have been able to push her out because I wouldn't have been able to move around to different positions like I needed to.
I guess my point is, do what you can, try chiro, but don't kill yourself over it because a lot of it is going to be up to your baby anyway, and OP is not the end of the world.
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