Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
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mainly a question
i have a beautiful 13 month old daughter.....my husband and i were in the stage of not trying but trying lol the one where if you get pregnant great if not thats ok to anyway we finally moved into our own house.....was living with his parents til we could afford one...and a week or 2 later we were excited to learn i was pregnant now i thought i was farther along because since i started my period it has always been 4 days 1st day heavy 4th light...in jan. my period was extremely light and only 2 days but dr didnt care nor listen so the said i was due nov 22....i had my first appt...no u/s....2nd appt no u/s and they didnt let me hear heartbeat....i was only 9 weeks (according to them) and they said they wouldnt be able to hear it til week 10 so we set an appt for a month from then( would have been may19th) ....last night i miscarried...im lactose intolerant like severely horrible painful cramps and diarrhia anyway i cant eat or drink any dairy or i will be in the bathroom in minutes....sometimes i just cant avoid it so i have asked both of my drs ( my daughters and this one) if having so horrible pains in my abdomin could hurt my child and neither answer me they just look at me like im stupid....i almost lost my daughter at week 8...now this one at week 12( after i passed the baby the said i was 12 or more weeks) and i was wondering if any of you know the answer. does being severely lactose intolerant pose a threat to my unborn children? is there anything i can do? could being lactose intolerant taken my last child from me? please help if you can im looking for answers that obviously my drs will not answer either because they believe its unimportant or they themselves do not know the answer please help me
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Re: mainly a question
Missing our little turkey.
Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12
Definitely!! The doctor's role isn't just to be there during healthy pregnancies, it is to offer support, care and answers when pregnancies are lost. I would definitely find a different doctor. Also, I have never heard of a doctor waiting until week 10 to listen for a heartbeat...
Sorry for your loss.
<<hugs>>
** BFP #1 - M/C at 6 weeks 4/13/2012 **
** BFP #2 - expecting a little leprechaun!! EDD 3/21/13 | HB 7/30/2012 (6w3d) **
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