Success after IF

We are matched again :)

Not sure if I ever updated over here.  We have been trying to adopt for a little while now.  Back in March we traveled to pick up a baby girl.  Spent about 24 hours at the hospital with her before we found out the birth mother was basically trying to give her baby to the highest bidder.  (There was another family at the hospital before we got there, the whole thing was a huge nightmare.) That birth mother is now in jail and the baby and her older brother and sister are in foster care.  So, terribly sad.  

We took some time to grieve the loss then jumped right back in.  This past weekend we were matched with a birth mother expecting a baby boy on May 22. Three weeks!!  

We are praying this is our forever baby and that he will complete our family.  Any thoughts & prayers you have to offer would be GREATLY appreciated!!  

After THREE years, our IVF miracle is here!!!
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Re: We are matched again :)

  • your first paragraph breaks my heart to read- i can't imagine what it has been like to go through...

    but very excited for you with this baby boy - i will be praying for you that all goes smooth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I used to be Goldie_locks_5 but the new nest is so screwed up that I was forced to start over.
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  • Congrats!

     What a difficult journey this has been for you and your family, but I'll say a prayer that this is a smooth and successful adoption!

  • Congrats on the new match!!  So exciting.  And I am so sorry about the prior experience.  That must have been heartbreaking.  I hope that this time things go much more smoothly!
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  • i am hoping this is it! i know you have been jerked around through this process, so i hope this is your little boy!
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  • Praying this is your take home baby, good luck!
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  • Congrats!  Hope everything goes smoothly this time and soon you have a beautiful baby boy in your arms. 
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  • Hoping this baby boy is your take home baby!  Good luck!

     

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  • How very exciting!!!! GOOD LUCK!!
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    Sending thoughts and prayers your way!!!  How excited and scary at the same time!  Keep us posted!

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  • Yay, yay, yay!  I hope that you are bringing home your new forever baby THIS MONTH!
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  • WOW!!!  I lurk over here (rarely post, and typically am on the adoption board).  I followed your story on facebook and was so sad for everyone involved with your failed match.  I can't even imagine going through that whole ordeal.

    I am so thrilled to see you are matched again!!!  Congrats, and I'm praying that this is your baby and everything goes smoothly!

    To respond to your most recent facebook post, my DH and I were a couple with an easy peasy match, so sometimes it really does happen that way.  We did have a few bumps in the road, but nothing major, and overall I would say that we had a very pleasant adoption experience.  I'm hoping the same will be true for your family and this baby!

  • I'm so excited for you guys! I hope this baby is your baby boy. Praying for your family and birth family. 
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  • So hopeful that this is your family's perfect match!!
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  • Sending you my very VERY best!  Please keep us posted! :)
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  • I am so thrilled for you!!!   Best of luck in the weeks ahead....keep us posted!!
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  • Definitely will be hoping and praying that this is the one for you guys.  Congrats  on the match.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • Congrats!  I hope it works out for you this time.
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  • wishing you much success this time around.  pls keep us posted! best of luck!!!!
    After 7 years of marriage and 5 unsuccessful IVFs, we have been granted the gift of adopting a baby boy, born 4/21/11.
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  • first let me say, what an awful lady!!!!

    and second YAY!!!! I am sending you lots of good vibes and will pray it goes smooth!!!

     

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  • That is wonderful news!

    T&Ps that everything goes smoothly!

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    Best of luck to you as you navigate the next few weeks. I hope this one works out smoothly! Yay!! :)
  • I can't imagine how hard it was for you when the first adoption fell through. Sending tons of T&Ps that this is your take home baby!
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    After two Clomid cycles, three injectable IUI cycles, two IVFs, two miscarriages, and one lap surgery, IVF #2 has brought us our little boy!

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    After months of being postponed or cancelled, FET #1.3 (Natural FET) brought us twin girls!

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  • Oh, I'm so hopeful for you!  Fingers crossed!!!
    PCOS, lupus anticoagulant, MTHFR (A1298C, one copy) 2 IUIs & 1 IVF = BFN FET#1 = It's a girl! Born 7.1.10 FET#2 = c/p FET#3 = Twin girls! Born on 3.16.12 at 33w2d due to severe pre-E. After 4 weeks in the NICU they are home! Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
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