So when I go back to work this fall after maternity leave I will just work PRN. So I will know my schedule 6 weeks in advance but not have much control over how many shifts I work. I'm hoping for 2 a week and then a weekend here or there but there's just no telling really. The biggest advantage is my foot is still in the door if I want to job share or go back FT in the future.
We found a great daycare by our house and put down a deposit earlier in my pregnancy. They will work with this flexible schedule but I have to pay for a minimum of 2 days a week ($59 a day) whether or not I need/use them.
So my question, if I don't get any shifts one week or just get one, should I still send my daughter to daycare 2 days a week? Then I would be home by myself...could run errands/clean/etc. which is great, but kinda seems weird at the same time. However wouldn't it be harder on the baby to skip a week or go irregularly? Just looking for insight from the seasoned pros
Re: PT daycare/routine?
Missing a week here or there isn't going to be a big impact to the baby probably. If you were skipping a month at a time, that's another thing, but a week they'll hardly notice.
It sounds ideal to me, honestly...if you have a full week off and have errands to run, you can take him a couple of days a week so he can see his 'friends' and get some good playtime in at daycare...if you're feeling like you need a little extra kid time, you can take him out those days (even though you're paying for them), and have some spontaneous playdates etc.
Gretchen Evie, born 7/8/2012 at 35w5d
Up until a few months ago, I worked part time in my field 5 days a week. I resigned and now SAH during the day (but work 2 evenings a week when the kids are in bed). I still keep the kids in daycare 1 afternoon a week because they love it/I can get stuff done.
Today they're going and I'm getting an oil change/putting away their winter clothes. It would be torture to do stuff like that when they're home. I always have miscellaneous errands/housework to do that's just easier to do without them in tow.
I would most definitely keep sending her even if you don't get the shifts. If you're paying for the service, might as well utilize it.
ETA: If LO gets sick look at it as a positive thing. It's helping to build her immune system which will help as she gets closer to school age. I feel no guilt when I have a sick LO(s).