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DH made me cry tonight (in a good way!!!)

Actingdiva09Actingdiva09 member
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He came home from being OOT during the day and handed me a note while he went to shower (to give me private time to read it!!). Impt facts about DH: he hates writing letters, but more than that, he LOATHES handwriting them!! This is a HANDWRITTEN letter!!!!! He also is never gushy, and we're also pretty tightly budgeted right now. Here are a couple of my favorite parts:

"I am sorry for pushing you lately. I am sorry for demanding intimacy. I am sorry for demanding answers you could not give. Please forgive me!"

"Please know that I love and care deeply for you, and will pay any price, monetary or otherwise, for your emotional, physical, & most importantly SPIRITUAL well being. If that means 3 hours of sleep, so be it. If that means therapy for a year, so be it. If that means no physical intimacy for 6 months or longer, then is be it." 

And he ended with: "I love you more than anything in this world" (I've never heard or seen him say/write anything this romantic!!!!)

Can I just say how blessed I am right now?? 24 hours ago he was frustrated out on our back porch b/c I didn't want to have sex and couldn't tell him a solid reason! I got plenty of cuddle time with him after I read it!!

 

 Edit: he later told me he hand wrote it on purpose b/c he knew what it would mean to me, and put the time and date b/c he knew I'd save it!!!!! <3

"For I know the plans I have for you,
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  • imwithrebelimwithrebel
    Awww, that's so sweet!!
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  • paisleybaby33paisleybaby33 member
    How sweet of him. I am so happy for you that he was able to take this step to show you in his own special way how special you are to him. Men are strange creatures.....
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  • CCline09CCline09

    Aw! That is so sweet of him. Can he talk to my DH? ;)

     

    But seriously, I know you really needed that right now and I am very happy for you! 

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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
    Awww, way to go DH! :)
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  • hrgunasekera1hrgunasekera1
    Wow, so sweet :)
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    BFP #1: 12/5/11, M/C 12/19/11
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  • Actingdiva09Actingdiva09 member
    imagencchnat:
    You can tell your husband he made me tear up a little, too. That's so sweet! I'm so happy he's being supportive. It sounds like he did some good thinking out there on the porch when he was frustrated last night.
    Hahaha nope, he was still frustrated/disappointed when he went to bed!! The thinking was on his hour drive home tonight after I poured out everything about wanting to go to a therapist.
    "For I know the plans I have for you,
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  • pkarenpkaren member
    So sweet! 
    BFP #1: 12/26/11, EDD 09/05/12; m/c discovered: 02/22/12 @ 12w u/s,
    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
    Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    That is really sweet. I always push honesty and being forward. I am so happy you got something so positive from him.
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    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • GatorBaby2012GatorBaby2012
    That's wonderful!
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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    so sweet :)

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  • dtowngirldtowngirl
    Aww :). So sweet.
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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    I love this!
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • s.alaries.alarie member
    This must have been perfect timing. Good job, Actingdiva09's DH!!

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  • EKGibsEKGibs member
    how sweet!
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    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    I got misty eyed reading this.  Your H is so sweet!

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  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    How sweet!  I hope you keep that note.
    Cycle 7: BFP 1-17-12, Missed Miscarriage at 8w6d (measured 7w2d, no HB), D&C 2-29-12
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  • Actingdiva09Actingdiva09 member
    imagekpowers982:
    How sweet!  I hope you keep that note.
    Absolutely I will!!!!
    "For I know the plans I have for you,
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