Besides to make others feel badly. Can someone please explain? I get the nice ones, but why put the rude and insensitive ones out there, and then re-post to have people narrow down the vote. Nobody wants to be the most bitter (don't even get me started), doesn't know when to shut up.. etc. I mean really? Why?
ETA- since this apparently went the wrong direction.... I see certain posts, but there were many others I just didn't understand, so I thought I would ask since there was no clarification on those that I saw
Re: I don't get the awards. What's the point?
Where were you when we were discussing this last week?? When we were all trying to figure out the different catagories??
Me: 34 Dh: 41, Married: Oct 15th 2011
Me: Deteriorating Ovarian Reserve, Hostile Uterus
Dh: Slow but Healthy Swimmers
Round 1 Clomid 100mg 7/12/2013
BFP 8/2/2013 EDD 4/14/2014
Charlotte Born on 4/23/3014
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Because I've only gone back a day and a half and have not seen a thread about what a f'ucked up idea this is. I only see the actual awards being posted. Hence the reason I asked.
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
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Ag
Agreed. And if you're just scanning down the posts, you wouldn't see that the content of one was removed by the OP and an apology was posted in its place. This thread was entirely unnecessary.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
None of them were meant to be hurtful. And they were meant to be fun. Again, where were you ladies when we were discussing this? I don't believe anyone said anything about there being a negative response.
Me: 34 Dh: 41, Married: Oct 15th 2011
Me: Deteriorating Ovarian Reserve, Hostile Uterus
Dh: Slow but Healthy Swimmers
Round 1 Clomid 100mg 7/12/2013
BFP 8/2/2013 EDD 4/14/2014
Charlotte Born on 4/23/3014
http://beanagirl01.blogspot.com/
I don't just support something a person says because they've been around a long time. I'd consider this post unnecessary regardless of who posted it.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
Simultaneous post high five!
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
I'm not some newb (trust me, despite what my post count may say). I went back a few days and didn't see anything execpt the awards. There was an apology in the bitter thread, but that is it.
Tina- I honestly don't get on here much anymore, but I try and lurk as often as I can. I would have said something had I noticed when this came up originally. I didn't mean to stir up drama if this apparently has already been discussed. I just saw the top two- bitter and not knowing when to shut up and got confused and offended so I thought I would ask
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
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Again, being a newb or a board reg has nothing to do with it.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
While I missed the poop post (sounds entertaining), I totally don't expect anyone to agree with me or even like me. I was just simply asking a question.
Skybee- thanks doll. It's ok though... I have my big girl panties on Besides, I'm never around anymore so no one even knows who the hell I am. Not that I am anybody
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
When the world says give up... hope whispers try it one more time
That isn't the reason I am supporting her. I have known Papps since before we found out about our IF. She has been a wonderful help through it all. I just thought people would leave it alone or answer and let it go because she is a reg. I tend to leave regs alone, simply because I know that if they write a post that is considered pointless, it is because they truely didn't see a previous post about the topic. They know better than to start aimless threads. I believe her that she didn't see previous threads on the topic.
Hence the reason I didn't comment in the thread or call it out and say it was disgusting.
I don't necessarily agree, but then again, I am not one to tell people to STFU. I don't really care who is "policing".
Me: 34 Dh: 41, Married: Oct 15th 2011
Me: Deteriorating Ovarian Reserve, Hostile Uterus
Dh: Slow but Healthy Swimmers
Round 1 Clomid 100mg 7/12/2013
BFP 8/2/2013 EDD 4/14/2014
Charlotte Born on 4/23/3014
http://beanagirl01.blogspot.com/
Very true. But it seems that people are jumping on it like I'm some newb who doesn't know any better. Trust me, I scanned the last few pages and there is nothing that stands out that this is an issue. Not everyone can be on here every single day to keep up with the glamorous life of the bumpie awards
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
When the world says give up... hope whispers try it one more time
I personally would have just posted this as a reply to begin with then. That link would have been a helpful reply!
You shouldn't feel bad. If no one speaks up, it isn't really your problem. I just think this whole thing could have been avoided if someone had provided a link to begin with for Papps.
There are a lot of awards posts with big stars on them. I am sure lurking grads don't spend all their bumping time siphoning through posts to see if that topic has already been covered. That being said, it isn't really a big deal. The question got answered.
Totally my bad for not being here regularly, I've already admitted to it. Jessuhmarie was the first one to actually be helpful and post a link, thought I did look through it. I still think there are other awards that are equally offensive besides that one, and when I did my "research" by going back, I saw nothing about it. So I thought I would ask
My guess is I will now probably be voted the most bitchy bumpie TTGP will never change. The only reason I brought up my post count is because some people tried to treat me like a stupid newb. I think I'll sit back and just let this thread die.
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
When the world says give up... hope whispers try it one more time
Right back at ya! I pretty much like every one on this board...... well except that girl that commented on our DS and that he was conceived via a donor......... every one else is great by me!
Thank you for this. From my lurking I didn't not see this. I saw everything else possible, but not that! ::goes back to lurking::
Congrats Starbuck :y & HHB on their sweet baby boys!
Lots of love & luck to Mdluv & Zook
IUI#4 = BFP!!
When the world says give up... hope whispers try it one more time
It's okay. I was expecting a rocky intro after what happened last year..... just not that comment. I get really upset when people bring DS into anything. He is my everything!
Thanks! He is a doll
I'm sorry you are feeling crappy about all this . I definitely don't think any of it is your fault. Nobody spoke up or suggested it was a bad idea. At all. For the record I think you're pretty awesome .
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I agree with AJ, Chancie......I think you're pretty awesome and none of this is your fault....
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Ahh yes...you did go out with a bang.
How the hell did the poop post get brought up AGAIN in the midst of all this other ridiculous nonsense?!?!
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Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
6 failed medicated IUI's
Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
Decided to adopt - 6/2012
SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012
Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
Decided to be "One and Done"
....OR NOT.
Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
Here we go again...
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