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Hi everyone,

I'm Andi and I am currently on my 4th miscarriage in a row. I'm numb, confused and mad, and I'm honestly not sure what to do.  My doctor doesn't want to see me until I start bleeding, which makes me even more mad. I feel like I'm just waiting for the world to fall down around me and he's basically abandoned me in this. Maybe I'm being dramatic, and if I am, please know I'm not a dramatic person, but I'm scared that I'll never be able to have another baby and I want someone to take me seriously.

I look forward to getting to know everyone here.

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  • elplochoelplocho member
    I'm sorry you have to be here again. I'm also sorry and mad for you that your doctor is being distant when you need support the most.
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  • krisztina33krisztina33

    So sorry that you are here and so sorry for your losses.  It sounds like looking into a different doctor might be a good idea.  It can't hurt at this point.  And (I don't know your history at all so maybe they already did this) I think after 2-3 consecutive miscarriages they usually do some testing to see if there is an easily treatable cause (low progesterone levels etc.)

    <<hugs>>

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    Well we know it's not progesterone because I was on progesterone supplements (vaginal gel, Crinone) from the time I got the early BFP and at my blood test on Monday, my progesterone was good. Maybe I'm having a progesterone issue from ovulation on and that's why this is happening? Maybe it's something else? Who knows?

    I started bleeding this morning. I knew it was coming but it was still a slap in the face. I had been holding out hope that maybe, just maybe, the HPTs were wrong and just not picking up the HCG in my system. 

    I have to go to the ER to get my Rhogam shot. My doctor doesn't have them. I hate this. I just want to curl in a ball and cry and sleep but I can't. :(

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