FFFC!!

+Jasha+ · April 2012

Alright ladies time to confess!!! Stick out tongue

+Jasha+ · April 2012

I got my NT scan scheduled yesterday and when the nurse told me the date (June 5th) I was super excited because it is my mom's birthday. She went with me to the NT scan for DS (SO couldn't make it because of work) so for some reason I had in my head that she would go to this one with me too. So I was super excited that she would get to see the baby for her birthday.
I sent SO an email at work telling him when the scan was and asking if he would be able to make it. He said yes I'll be there.
My confession - I was bummed that he could make it Embarrassed . I remember being so sad that he missed it with DS (that was our 1st u/s), so I'm truely happy that he will be able to make it this time. Not sure why I was soooo bummed, but I was.

Sheila.Scully · April 2012

I ate leftover spaghetti with cheese for breakfast yesterday and I don't regret it one bite. I also feel bad but also relieved that DD is now spending the weekend with her grandparents and I get a break. I miss her terribly, but it is nice to have a break. Naps when I want them! Eat when I want to!

choppinbroccoli22 · April 2012

I selectively read posts, because I don't want to become afraid for my LO. I don't know if I'm going to be able to see it on u/s for a long time. While I feel terrible every time I see someone post about a loss, and I might be sending them T&P's silently... I don't read it.

southernbear · April 2012

choppinbroccoli22:
I selectively read posts, because I don't want to become afraid for my LO. I don't know if I'm going to be able to see it on u/s for a long time. While I feel terrible every time I see someone post about a loss, and I might be sending them T&P's silently... I don't read it.

I do this too. I send my T&Ps to anyone with a loss post... but I can't open them. Not yet anyway. I need to keep only positive thoughts in my head right now so I don't worry more than I already do.

JBM1204 · April 2012

choppinbroccoli22:
I selectively read posts, because I don't want to become afraid for my LO. I don't know if I'm going to be able to see it on u/s for a long time. While I feel terrible every time I see someone post about a loss, and I might be sending them T&P's silently... I don't read it.

Im the opposite, but also probably FFC worthy. I read them to see if I am feeling/ experiencing some of the same symptoms, just to reassure myself. I rarely comment, though, because I don't know what to say.

HopeNotLost · April 2012

I am scared to death of twins. Twins run in my family a ridiculous amount, so that just adds to it. In addition, I feel like I am bigger than I should be at almost 6 weeks, but I keep telling myself it is the typical 1st tri bloat. Then on top of it, every time I turn around, someone else on this board is announcing twins, and I seriously want to throw up. I am happy for everyone who is having multiples, but I am praying that I don't join that club.

AshDahlia · April 2012

choppinbroccoli22:
I selectively read posts, because I don't want to become afraid for my LO. I don't know if I'm going to be able to see it on u/s for a long time. While I feel terrible every time I see someone post about a loss, and I might be sending them T&P's silently... I don't read it.

I do the same thing, and I selectively reply. I pray daily for everyone TTGP, pregnant, and those who've had a loss, even if I don't reply to a post.

I haven't been very active on this board yet because I'm afraid that something could happen. It seems like a lot of CPs happen around 5-6 weeks, and I'm not even there yet. I'm still in a little disbelief that this is real since the only symptoms I have are being tired and having a larger appetite. I want to get to know all of you and participate more, and definitely plan to!

dandywarhol · April 2012

I don't understand women who don't want their husbands to be active participants in their pregnancy. This isn't just the woman's baby. Women have a special connection to their child but that doesn't mean that men shouldn't be encouraged to develop one as well.

Seeing how men are treated, or mistreated, during the death of a child really opened my eyes to how men are often second class citizens during pregnancy/parenthood.

P&R - have to actually do some work today.

+Jasha+ · April 2012

HopeNotLost:

I am scared to death of twins. Twins run in my family a ridiculous amount, so that just adds to it. In addition, I feel like I am bigger than I should be at almost 6 weeks, but I keep telling myself it is the typical 1st tri bloat. Then on top of it, every time I turn around, someone else on this board is announcing twins, and I seriously want to throw up. I am happy for everyone who is having multiples, but I am praying that I don't join that club.

Somehow I feel relieved that I'm not the only one thinking this.

8daysaweek · April 2012

I woke H up this morning even though it was his day off so he could help me get DD ready for school. I've been so sick for over two weeks and I have no freaking voice. He didn't want to keep her home today (he's been sick also), which meant I had to get up an hour earlier to get her ready and take her to daycare and I'm irritated about it.

So I had him get up and help me get her ready because I felt so weak and sick this morning I could barely lift her and she wouldn't listen to me because I had to whisper everything.

Also, I can't talk and I'm a journalist. I can't interview people or anything. I have one story to finish today. I did two interviews by email and have a colleague actually asking the questions for me for the third. I feel useless and I keep coughing and everyone looks at me like I have the plague.

MrsT1108 · April 2012

+Jasha+:
HopeNotLost:

I am scared to death of twins. Twins run in my family a ridiculous amount, so that just adds to it. In addition, I feel like I am bigger than I should be at almost 6 weeks, but I keep telling myself it is the typical 1st tri bloat. Then on top of it, every time I turn around, someone else on this board is announcing twins, and I seriously want to throw up. I am happy for everyone who is having multiples, but I am praying that I don't join that club.

Somehow I feel relieved that I'm not the only one thinking this.

I am in the same boat.

peacelove&mama · April 2012

Even though it's not Friday anymore... hubby always wants to have sex, and right now even just more than a peck on the lips makes my blood boil (in a bad way!). I literally breathe a sigh of relief when he says he's tired, we'll wait until tomorrow. I can't bring myself to tell him because he would take it so personally. We normally have a very active sex life, so I'm blaming the pregnancy... he won't see it that way though!

BLuvsE · April 2012

peacelove&mama:
Even though it's not Friday anymore... hubby always wants to have sex, and right now even just more than a peck on the lips makes my blood boil (in a bad way!). I literally breathe a sigh of relief when he says he's tired, we'll wait until tomorrow. I can't bring myself to tell him because he would take it so personally. We normally have a very active sex life, so I'm blaming the pregnancy... he won't see it that way though!

It's not???

beeunit · April 2012

I am terrified of having two kids. 1 is hard enough (although getting easier the older he gets). I really don't know if I can do it.

missusmeeseeks · April 2012

I hate two faced bitchfaces, namely a few "women" I work with. I work third shift yet am frequently blamed for things they know I didn't do. The other day I had the audacity to complain about it and now I'm the jerk for not just taking it. I love listening to J practically fellate A with compliments, then when A isn't around awful things are said. The next day, A has nothing but shiiitty things to say about J. I wish they knew how pathetic they look. My confession is that I see myself occasionally doing these things too and I need to not do it at all. Ever.

ladysingstheblues · April 2012

dandywarhol:

I don't understand women who don't want their husbands to be active participants in their pregnancy. This isn't just the woman's baby. Women have a special connection to their child but that doesn't mean that men shouldn't be encouraged to develop one as well.

Seeing how men are treated, or mistreated, during the death of a child really opened my eyes to how men are often second class citizens during pregnancy/parenthood.

P&R - have to actually do some work today.

I'm confused. What women don't want their husbands involved? And what kind of involvement are you referring to?

dandywarhol · April 2012

ladysingstheblues:
dandywarhol:

I don't understand women who don't want their husbands to be active participants in their pregnancy. This isn't just the woman's baby. Women have a special connection to their child but that doesn't mean that men shouldn't be encouraged to develop one as well.

Seeing how men are treated, or mistreated, during the death of a child really opened my eyes to how men are often second class citizens during pregnancy/parenthood.

P&R - have to actually do some work today.

I'm confused. What women don't want their husbands involved? And what kind of involvement are you referring to?

The has been mention that some people (not pp from this thread) don't want their husbands with them during the u/s. This just seems so selfish to me.

ClarissaExplainsItAll · April 2012

My ultrasound was scheduled for Wednesday but I called and asked if I could come in today instead. I was irrationally upset when I sprung it on FI and he cant make it.

EIsieMae · April 2012

beeunit:
I am terrified of having two kids. 1 is hard enough (although getting easier the older he gets). I really don't know if I can do it.

This.

NoeliaV · April 2012

I wouldn't let DH pick up my prescriptions from Walgreens last night because I also needed constipation meds and didn't want to ask him to get them for me.

And then I was cranky that I had to make a trip out of my way to pick it all up.

I'm so rational. ;-)

EIsieMae · April 2012

This morning I was making DH eggs and toast for breakfast. My hand must have spazzed out or something, because I ended up accidentally dropping the toast on the floor. I just picked it up, blew it off, and tossed it onto the plate.

My real FFC is that I kinda got some amusement out of him eating floor toast. I had just told him last night that the smell of eggs made me nauseous, and of course, that's what he wanted for breakfast. So I feel it was justified:)

LaceFace14 · April 2012

beeunit:
I am terrified of having two kids. 1 is hard enough (although getting easier the older he gets). I really don't know if I can do it.

Its so hard but I promise you can do it.

beeunit · April 2012

LaceFace14:

beeunit:
I am terrified of having two kids. 1 is hard enough (although getting easier the older he gets). I really don't know if I can do it.

Its so hard but I promise you can do it.

thank you

ladysingstheblues · April 2012

NoeliaV:
I wouldn't let DH pick up my prescriptions from Walgreens last night because I also needed constipation meds and didn't want to ask him to get them for me.

And then I was cranky that I had to make a trip out of my way to pick it all up.

I'm so rational. ;-)

Oh dear. My unsolicited advice: get over it Having him pick up embarrassing meds is nothing compared to what he will see come delivery time lol.

WiscoMom67 · April 2012

1) I, too, am a bit scared of having 2 children. DS can defnitely be a handful all on his own. I fear he will be jealous and act out.

2) I do not avoid caffiene during pregnancy. I have a weakness for regular Coke from a fountain machine. I do watch myself, but even the March of Dimes says up to 200 mg of caffeine a day is acceptable, and I would have to drink 72 ounces of Coke to surpass that limit. (I allow myself 32 ounces.)

ladysingstheblues · April 2012

dandywarhol:
ladysingstheblues:
dandywarhol:

I don't understand women who don't want their husbands to be active participants in their pregnancy. This isn't just the woman's baby. Women have a special connection to their child but that doesn't mean that men shouldn't be encouraged to develop one as well.

Seeing how men are treated, or mistreated, during the death of a child really opened my eyes to how men are often second class citizens during pregnancy/parenthood.

P&R - have to actually do some work today.

I'm confused. What women don't want their husbands involved? And what kind of involvement are you referring to?

The has been mention that some people (not pp from this thread) don't want their husbands with them during the u/s. This just seems so selfish to me.

Oh, odd. I haven't seen an example of that ever. I wonder what their reasoning is?

beeunit · April 2012

WiscoMom67:

1) I, too, am a bit scared of having 2 children. DS can defnitely be a handful all on his own. I fear he will be jealous and act out.

2) I do not avoid caffiene during pregnancy. I have a weakness for regular Coke from a fountain machine. I do watch myself, but even the March of Dimes says up to 200 mg of caffeine a day is acceptable, and I would have to drink 72 ounces of Coke to surpass that limit. (I allow myself 32 ounces.)

Ditto. I drank Diet Coke during my first pregnancy, and I'm drinking it with this one too. Maybe 40 ounces/day. Sometimes less.

NoeliaV · April 2012

ladysingstheblues:
NoeliaV:
I wouldn't let DH pick up my prescriptions from Walgreens last night because I also needed constipation meds and didn't want to ask him to get them for me.

And then I was cranky that I had to make a trip out of my way to pick it all up.

I'm so rational. ;-)

Oh dear. My unsolicited advice: get over it Having him pick up embarrassing meds is nothing compared to what he will see come delivery time lol.

I know, I know. :-)
I think it was mostly that I didn't want to explain to him *exactly* what I needed. Mainly because I came home and announced that I hoped to poop sometime in the next week. The good man laughed, put me to bed and took the dog to the park.

SchruteBucks · April 2012

WiscoMom67:

1) I, too, am a bit scared of having 2 children. DS can defnitely be a handful all on his own. I fear he will be jealous and act out.

2) I do not avoid caffiene during pregnancy. I have a weakness for regular Coke from a fountain machine. I do watch myself, but even the March of Dimes says up to 200 mg of caffeine a day is acceptable, and I would have to drink 72 ounces of Coke to surpass that limit. (I allow myself 32 ounces.)

Fountain coke = the best thing ever

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