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almost cried at dinner tonight (pregnancy mentioned not mine)

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So, I know I haven't been around much lately, but I really don't know where else to vent this. My older sister is having her baby girl on friday (her second child). I am so beyond happy to be an aunt again, but I have been trying to get pregnant for 15 months and had one loss so it's also been a little difficult (I try not to let her see it though). 

I have my first RE appointment on Tuesday and I wasn't sure if I had told my sister so I brought it up when we went out to eat tonight casually. She asked me what I thought the RE would say and I said I think we'll just have to do some tests. She proceeded to tell me that she doesn't know why I'm going and that the last 15 months don't count because I got diagnosed with hypothyroidism in January. She told me I can't count it because I know I have a problem. I just said I didnt want to talk about it and teared up.

 The main reason I'm going to the RE is to have someone who better understands hypothyroidism and pregnancy and to also get some of the basic testing done so at least I feel a little more in control. I've been feeling really depressed lately.

So, do you think my RE visit is justified?

It totally sucked to have someone else tell me my time TTC didn't count especially someone about to have a baby. Plus, one of my only friends my age got pregnant a few weeks after I had my chemical pregnancy on her second month trying and is now halfway through her pregnancy. And she lied to me about finding out her baby's gender. So basically that friendship is out the window. I feel alone and mad.

 End vent. Thanks for reading. You deserve a drink and if I could PIP from my phone there would be a large round of drinks right here. 

TTC since Jan2011
BFP#1 11-23-2011 EDD 08-01-12 -- early miscarriage 11-27-2011 @ 4W4D
DX hashimoto's hypothyroidism Jan2012
BFP#2 5-14-2012 EDD 01-21-13 -- early miscarriage 05-17-2012 @ 4W3D
BFP#3 7-15-2012 EDD 03-29-13
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