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Family vent (I'm jealous)

mooetamooeta member
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So I have a cousin who is UBER fertile, she has 3 kids, by two different fathers, she had myspace hook ups and that's how she had her third while her DH was stationed in Afghanistan.  Now they have reconciled and are living in Germany.  Why the hell does she get everything thing I want without working for it.  Living abroad, a cute little baby... ugg I just am so frustrated.  I've spent my life being careful and responsible and what has it landed me but being jealous of my whore cousin.  UGG.
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Re: Family vent (I'm jealous)

  • FlipFlopChickFlipFlopChick
    It pisses me off too!  I keep reminding myself that down the road it'll catch up with them.
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  • KaymeeKaymee member

    Is your cousin my soon to be ex sister inlaw? (j/k)

    She got PG with her first son 3 months into her relationship with DHs brother.  They got married when he was 8 months old.  A few months later she was PG with our niece.  Now they are getting a divorce and she is KU again by the guy she was cheating on my BIL with Angry

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  • raskind17raskind17 member
    I know right?!! SO not fair. It seems to happen like that. But honestly maybe we will appreciate it more...
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  • moobugmoobug

    I am sorry. This is my ex who insists on keeping in touch sporatically to inform me he has recently gotten the 18yr orl girlfriend pregnant - awesome.

    Just try and remember that even though it seems she has everything you are working carefully and responsibly to achieve she is probably not a happy and satisfied person.

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  • ibisibis member
    Hm... maybe it's just me, but I wouldn't be terribly jealous of someone whose kids have deadbeat dads, who has a rocky marriage filled with infidelity and sad sex with strangers, and a DH who's deployed. I want a baby but I wouldn't trade my happy marriage for all that jazz!
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  • mtenderemtendere member
    Definitely not fair...sorry! 
    ***************************** Our beautiful daughter was born in October 2009. Turns out she was quite the miracle. After two years of TTC, diagnosed with DOR. A couple of failed treatment cycles later, we decided to let go of our hope for more biological children and explore adoption.
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