Pregnant after a Loss

Why oh why did I look on 1st Tri again???

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* CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
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Re: Why oh why did I look on 1st Tri again???

  • Seriously.. if that's the worst thing she's ever gone through then I'd say she's had it pretty good.  Ridiculous. 
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  • Yeah...I saw that...Just...Ugh. SMH. I didn't even bother responding. She's a tool.
  • Ughhhhhhhh.
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  • I have no idea why you looked. It's like a bad car accident I suppose.

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  • I responded.  What an @$$hat.  A bunch of AL'ers jumped all over that one!
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  • How pathetic. I feel like answering....

    Are you sure you want it to be over? Because just like that G-d can take your baby away from you and it WILL be over... Stupid people!!!

     I understand that the nausea and fatigue, constipation etc. isn't fun but it's the way they word it like it's the hardest thing ever. Wow they must have led a charmed life!! And now that they have this precious gift inside them all they can do is complain. 

    We thank G-d are pregnant I feel so badly for all the people who can't even get pregnant. I have a cousin who's been married for ten years with no children what she would give to have unending nausea for 9 months straight just to hold a baby in her arms!! People just don't think!

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  • I am there and Dec MB because I actually have nothing better to do with my time Smile and I love watching train wrecks happening.
    Me: 37 DH: 40 TTC since 9/09
    #1 BFP 1/10/11; missed m/c discovered 7w5d
    IF Dx: Endo, hetero MTHFR mutation, poor morphology
    #1 IUI: 1/18/12 = BFN
    #1 IVF/ICSI 4/2/12 = 2 x 7-cell and 1 x 5-cell transferred (3dt) = BFP!!
    H was born at 41w2d on 12/29/12 - be still my heart!
    #2 IVF/ICSI 1/19/14 = 2 x 8 cells transferred (3dt) = BFP!! EDD 10/09/14
    M&W born at 37 weeks on 9/18/14 - I am the momma of 3 boys!!!

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  • I saw this earlier when I was "lurking" to see what was said on the other mess of a thread.. but, I hadn't opened it.. the title alone said enough for me :(
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  • What an ungrateful biatch.

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    Yeah I fell in that pit yesterday too. Why is first tri just so... blech! I don't get it! It's like reading the FB timeline of a 16 year old cheerleader.

    This made me laugh!

    Loss #1: 18w5d.. D&E 04Mar03 BFP #2: Jun2011.. missed miscarriage. D&C 08Jul2011 8w4d. BFP #3: Nov2011.. Our Rainbow Baby!!! DS Born: 15Jul2012! BFP #4: Nov2012.. 2U1 - DS2 born 12Jul2013.  BFP #5: 01Jan2014..3U3!!

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  • I promised that I would never complain about being pg after my loss.  I am due at the end of July so yeah I can't wait till it gets really hot ;)

    I was lucky though and 1st tri for me wasn't that bad, just the being super tired.  

    But even if I was sick as a dog I wouldn't have been complaining so much.  But then again after going through a loss I think you look at things differently.  Lord know even if baby wakes me up in the middle of the night with a kick I smile- to me it gives me hope that I will get to him him someday soon.  

  • I could not help myself, I was one of the first people NOT to throw puppies and rainbows at her. I was just SO infuriated. Here I am praying I make it past 6 weeks, and she's "over" it! F that noise. Sorry. Idiot.


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    What an ungrateful biatch.

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  • What a complete A$$hat, some people really need to think before they speak!


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  • Ridiculous, so ungrateful :(

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  • I saw this last night and it made me want to smack her upside the head. Yes, my first tri sucked, but the hardest thing I've ever done?! Someone needs some serious perspective.
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  • Can't wait for her to give 3rd tri a whirl... or labor.

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    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

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  • I responded early on and had to rewrite my response a few times to tone it down since my first instinct was to tell her to try giving birth to a dead baby after throwing up every five minutes for hours and hours straight. She has no idea what hard is.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • I really hope that the OP reads all of the comments that were left. I wanted to comment but I can't gather my thoughts well enough to put into words after reading her post. I was sitting here tearing up. I was so grateful for morning sickness, it was reassuring for me. I am grateful for the painful kicks because I know she is alive. Some people just have no clue. I wouldn't ever wish a loss on anyone. Losing two babies has been one of the hardest things I have had to go through.
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