Holy rough night. Any thoughts on transitioning to the crib? Tips? We tried to move DD to her crib for the first time last night (she's been sleeping in our room, in her bouncer for the past three weeks or so). Total fail. She slept from 12:30 - 3 a.m., then was up every twenty minutes or so until 6 a.m., when DS #1 got up. Then she slept for three hours in the Boppy. She was fussy and a little gassy, but definitely fussy.
She's been taking naps and sleeping in the Boppy and the bouncer since we brought her home (she'll be three weeks tomorrow), so perhaps it was being flat that was the issue? Would love thoughts from anyone.
Thoughts on transitioning her to the crib? TIA!
Re: Transitioning to Crib
I had sleep issues with my first two kiddos so decided to try a totally different approach and read "On Becoming Babywise" by Gary Ezzo, on the advise of two couples who used that technique with success.
DS is now 4 weeks and doing well sleeping in crib. He typically wakes only 2x a night from 10 pm on. Ususally once around 1:30 and again at 5. Totally managable!!! He began doing this at about 2 weeks of age and I've been doing the Babywise technique since birth.
As with any book, you take what you can use and leave what you don't want. The key with this technique is flexibility, parental assessment of infant's needs, and really working toward full feedings. Total 180 from my previous full tilt AP model of parenting. This feels much more balanced, and we are seeing the positive results.
btw, he was in the room with us for the first 10 or 12 days.
Thx! We used "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child" with DS #1 and he's a champion sleeper. I think I just need to dig it up! Good reminder.
We did Babywise with DD1 and loved it. I'm waiting for my copy to come in at the library, but if it keeps taking so long I might just need to buy it.
DD2 won't sleep flat on her back either. She'll be 4 weeks on Tuesday. She seems to have a touch of reflux and just chokes when I put her in her crib. I'm going to try to acclimate her to it during naps during the day when I have more energy and it won't keep the whole house awake.
That sounds like a good plan -- the acclimating during the day. DH and I talked about me doing that during the day while DS #1 is at daycare and DH is at work. Hopefully, that will help!
My hubby and I were just talking about this lastnight. We thought we would put a date on moving him to the crib. So we decided on his 2 month check up. I'm going to have to go get pick up this book before then.
Thanks for the great tips!
We decided to do the transition starting with naps in the daytime. I swaddled her and decided to use the same routine we did with DS1 - we put on some rain sounds, swaddle, feed, rock and put in crib. The bedtime routine is similar, but we use ocean sounds. For DS1, we found that the consistency was the key, and that the different sounds provided ample cues for how long to sleep.
I did the nap routine today, and she's been in the crib sleeping for an hour and twenty minutes. Here's hoping this works!
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I know Boppy also sells large pads that are meant for lounging, and maybe those are ok for sleeping but wanted to post this warning just in case.
RE: transitioning to crib - DS2 is still sleeping in our room but when we went through this with DS1 we transitioned him at naptime first (so frequent wakings weren't so painful) and utilized swaddling and white noise machines.
DS1 born June 2008 | m/c at 9w March 2011 | DS2 born April 2012