TTC After a Loss

I could really use some encouragement/kind words.

I am struggling today.  Bad.  I feel like the wind has been knocked out of me.  I can't explain the particulars unfortunately, as there are a couple of people I know on here IRL.  I'm just feeling really low and really sorry for myself and angry at life for the hand I've been dealt even though I know it's totally out of my control.  Thanks for listening.
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Re: I could really use some encouragement/kind words.

  • ((hugs)) I think we all have tese days at some point. I hope whatever is going on that is burdening you at the moment gets resolves quickly. Life sucks sometimes and I often hate the cards I've been dealt but I know something good is going to happen for you that will make it all worth it. Just keep on pushing on love.
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  • ((hugs)) I think we all have these days at some point. I hope whatever is going on that is burdening you at the moment gets resolves quickly. Life sucks sometimes and I often hate the cards I've been dealt but I know something good is going to happen for you that will make it all worth it. Just keep on pushing on love.
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  • I'm sorry to hear you're struggling today, dear. Once you feel yourself fall into a downward spiral, it can be so hard to get back out of it. Hang in there. You're a smart, caring, wonderful woman with a great sense of humor, who has a lot to offer the world. Thinking of you today and hoping you're feeling better soon. Be kind to yourself. ((hugs))

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  • So sorry for the rough day. Sending tons of hugs and prayers!
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  • So sorry to hear that you are down in the dumps. Why does it always seem that when it rains bad news it pours. Hoping that things turn around quickly, and you're smiling around soon! You always are on here encouraging others and now it's our turn to send you some love!
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  • I'm sorry you're having a rough day. ((hugs))

  • Sorry you are having a tough day. I hope things get better, can you try to do something for yourself (pedicure, manicure, eat carton of your favorite icecream) to try and cheer up....something to try to get your mind off of what's going on, even if only for a few minutes.
  • I hope your Day/week gets better.  Sending lots of thoughts and prayers! :)
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  • Girl, I'm having a Sh!tastic day too....We need some Beer stat!.

     I'm sorry its been rough and I hope the day gets better for you.

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  • I'm so sorry, I know how that feels.  I hope that whatever is making you struggle subsides very soon and that you'll smile "just because".  We're here hun!  ((hugs))

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  • Cheer up love, I'm so sorry that you are having a bad day. Just know that you are not alone, and that we all have days like this. Try to do something for yourself and focus on the positives in your life, this is what always helps me. Just take things on day at a time, one hour or minute at a time if you have to, and always remember that these days will become fewer and far between as time passes. (((Hugs)))
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    Because I just can't help myself.  Hope this cheers you up, it did for me!~

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  • Hope you have a better day....Big Smile
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  • Hope you have a better day....Big Smile
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    Sorry to hear you're having a rough day. YGPM.

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  • I'm sorry you're having a rough day, it really sucks.  I hope that you are able to pull it together and power through.  Glad we could be here for you to vent to.

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  • (((big hugs))) If you need someone to talk with privately, you're welcome to PM me any time.
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  • I'm sorry you're struggling. I was there a few weeks back ..feeling sorry for myself and really angry at life. If someone had seen me at home they would have thought I'd completely lost it.

    I'm not going to offer any advice because I don't think anything I could say could make you feel any better. I just really hope better days are coming soon for you.

    If you need to get things out you can send a PM.

     

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  • I hate those days.  It's so tough dealing with things that are out of our control, but that make us so sad.  I hope things look up for you tomorrow!
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  • I am so sorry you are having such a tough day. It seems like I will be on a roll with feeling good, and then something will hit me wrong and I will be back at rock bottom.try to take a break and do something nice for yourself. I hope things improve soon. Big squishy ((hugs.))
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  • I'm so sorry you are going through this. cry & break stuff if you need to. (((((hugs))))
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  • Bad days suck! I hope your tomorrow is better! (hugs) 
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  • Sorry to hear you are having a bad day. I hope things get better soon.
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  • ((HUGS)) I hope tomorrow is a better and brighter day for you.
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  • Sorry you're feeling down.  I hope that your day turned around and that you're feeling a little better now.  Hugs to you!
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  • ((HUGS))

    I hate days like that. I hope that tomorrow brings a better one!

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