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Sorry, TMI...

megwill33megwill33 member
in December 2012 Moms

I'm sorry that this is a little too much information but I can't stop freaking out and running to the bathroom to check my panties.  I know that vaginal secretions are supposed to increase in pregnancy but every time I feel even a little wetness on my underwear I have to run to the bathroom to make sure I'm not spotting/bleeding (even though I haven't had any cramping at all)!

Would someone please smack me upside the head?

I just can't seem to get past my fear of another miscarriage and enjoy being pregnant! 

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  • cjdottiecjdottie

    I think its normal to feel that way..  I also think a lot of us are doing that...  But just to help you feel better

     

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  • happilyeverafterxohappilyeverafterxo member

    It is definitely normal hun :) I'd be lying if I said I didn't check the toilet paper every time I go to the bathroom!

    I've been noticing more EWCM, but it could also be from my progesterone suppositories!

    I'm with you on not being able to get past the fear of a miscarriage. I am so sorry for your loss and wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy this time around! :)


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  • buckeyebaby814buckeyebaby814 member
    I think that's completely normal.  I am the same way to the point I've become a little tender from extra wiping Embarrassed  

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  • fleursfishfleursfish member
    I check every single time I go to the bathroom too.  I was just telling my husband last night that you'd think I would be so excited to be pregnant, but the anxiety has pushed the excitement away.
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  • bunnymaybunnymay member
    I do it too, especially when I feel any kind of gush.

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  • rainbows&unicornsrainbows&unicorns member

    imagefleursfish:
    I check every single time I go to the bathroom too.  I was just telling my husband last night that you'd think I would be so excited to be pregnant, but the anxiety has pushed the excitement away.

    I agree 100%.  I feel like I now have a lifetime of worry ahead of me and DH due to this child and it's just the beginning! 

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  • Danni7535Danni7535 member
    I do the same thing!  In fact, every time I go to the bathroom and I don't spot, I say, "thank you, God."  I feel like once I get my 8 week u/s and hear the hb, I'll be in the clear.  However, I'm sure when that time comes, I'll have a new set of worries.  Anyway, you're not alone!  Us gals who are pregnant after a loss are right there with you.
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  • Becky&JamesBecky&James member
    I am concerned about bleeding as well.  I had some cramping with that feeling the other day and thought it would be the end!  I think my mind will be put at ease once I see a heartbeat because I never got to see that with the last one, it was just a vacant bubble.  
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  • acardona1010acardona1010 member
    That's funny that you posted that!  Every time I use the restroom I get all nervous to see if there's anything.  Also, is it fairly normal to be fairly dry down there?  It's such a change from when you're TTC.
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  • heatherf1017heatherf1017 member
    Yep! I do the same thing.
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  • pugmom11pugmom11 member
    Guilty of doing to same thing as well, I think it's normal. :-)
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  • kyleehssahmkyleehssahm
    OMG! Im so glad im not the only one who is doing this also. When im out with friends or family I say I have to pee so I can just take a peek.

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  • farmerlyndafarmerlynda member

    imageDanni7535:
    I do the same thing!  In fact, every time I go to the bathroom and I don't spot, I say, "thank you, God."  I feel like once I get my 8 week u/s and hear the hb, I'll be in the clear.  However, I'm sure when that time comes, I'll have a new set of worries.  Anyway, you're not alone!  Us gals who are pregnant after a loss are right there with you.

    Those of us who are pregnant after IF are too!  Everything you've said rings true to me too.  After so much pain and heartache to get where we are today... we all should be happy, but instead we're paranoid.  I just can't wait to get out of first tri.

    I definitely race off to the bathroom to check after a CM "gush" too!

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  • CatLadyTXCatLadyTX member

    I do this too!  I actually go to the restroom just to check, even though I don't always have to go. It makes me so scared but I'm always relieved when it is clean.  

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