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At what point are you considered a slut?

raefreraefre member
in January 2012 Moms

This is sort of inspired by a young woman who came in to work today and declared that she was a slut, because she had slept with six different men before she was 23 and will have two children from two different dads (she just found out she was pregnant with #2 from a one-night stand).

So anyway...at what point are you considered a slut? 

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Re: At what point are you considered a slut?

  • elsINlbelsINlb member
    I think it's official sometime before you declare yourself a slut to others... 
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  • KelmarwilKelmarwil member

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    I think it's official sometime before you declare yourself a slut to others... 

    True story. I don't think it's a numbers game per-say.  I think it's an attitude and general lack of caring (about your reputation, finding the right person, STD's, etc. Enter topic...a slut doesn't care)

    I have a girl at my work who is outspoken about her "easiness". I actually respect her for the fact that she completely owns up to what she does, without throwing herself in everyone's faces at the same time. I cannot STAND girls who pretend to be classy, modest individuals and in reality are nothing but skeet buckets. Know who you are and own up to it, no matter what it is. If you cannot be honest about the person you are because you don't like that type of person, then change.

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  • SoonToBeMsPSoonToBeMsP member
    imageKelmarwil:

    imageelsINlb:
    I think it's official sometime before you declare yourself a slut to others... 

    True story. I don't think it's a numbers game per-say.  I think it's an attitude and general lack of caring (about your reputation, finding the right person, STD's, etc. Enter topic...a slut doesn't care)

    I have a girl at my work who is outspoken about her "easiness". I actually respect her for the fact that she completely owns up to what she does, without throwing herself in everyone's faces at the same time. I cannot STAND girls who pretend to be classy, modest individuals and in reality are nothing but skeet buckets. Know who you are and own up to it, no matter what it is. If you cannot be honest about the person you are because you don't like that type of person, then change.

    Agreed. I don't think it's a number (unless we're talking 30, 40, 50 by the time you're 25) but more a mentality. 

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  • Lhand11Lhand11 member
    I think it has to do with validation. If you start having sex to make men like you and in lieu, make yourself feel better, than you are a slut. I just keep thinking about some girls I knew in college who couldn't go to a party without seeing 5 guys she slept with. Everyone of these girls had low self esteem and sleeping around was just validation. This in addition to a high number count, definitely a sloot.
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  • courtneyklvcourtneyklv
    Why do you even care???
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    Why do you even care???

     

    Why do you? Have any insight?

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  • ames243567ames243567 member
    imageKelmarwil:

    imageelsINlb:
    I think it's official sometime before you declare yourself a slut to others... 

    True story. I don't think it's a numbers game per-say.  I think it's an attitude and general lack of caring (about your reputation, finding the right person, STD's, etc. Enter topic...a slut doesn't care)

    I have a girl at my work who is outspoken about her "easiness". I actually respect her for the fact that she completely owns up to what she does, without throwing herself in everyone's faces at the same time. I cannot STAND girls who pretend to be classy, modest individuals and in reality are nothing but skeet buckets. Know who you are and own up to it, no matter what it is. If you cannot be honest about the person you are because you don't like that type of person, then change.

     

    Uhmmm, my new goal in life is to use this phrase everyday until the day I die!

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  • raefreraefre member

    imagecourtneyklv:
    Why do you even care???

    just curious...why do you ask?

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  • courtneyklvcourtneyklv

    I asked because personally, I wouldn't care or want to know about some random chick. If she is or isn't a slut.. It doesn't matter in your life.  It is better to just worry about yourself and stay out of it. What she does or doesn't do has no effect on you. That's all.  

     

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  • MrsAMB07MrsAMB07 member
    imagecourtneyklv:

    I asked because personally, I wouldn't care or want to know about some random chick. If she is or isn't a slut.. It doesn't matter in your life.  It is better to just worry about yourself and stay out of it. What she does or doesn't do has no effect on you. That's all.  

     

    OP explained that the woman came in and made the declaration about herself so it got the OP thinking about it.

    It sounds like you're just looking for drama where there isn't any. 

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