CPW: Most Supportive Person

Re: CPW: Most Supportive Person

• delino member

  April 2012

  DH, my parents and brother, BF, MIL and SIL are all equally supportive. But I talk to DH most often since I don't like to discuss everything with everyone IYKWIM.

  3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)

  IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets

  Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13

  

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• katharine25 member

  April 2012

  It's a tie between DH & my mother... 

  Married My Love on 6/18/2006
  BFP#1 10/1/2011. Our perfect little girl, Her heart stopped @ 12w1d. D&E 11/23/11
  BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
  BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
  BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
  BFP#5 12/10/12 EDD 8/23/2013
  Baby Boy Born 8/22/13
   
  
  

  
  

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• orangegoggles member

  April 2012

  Ohh good question...definitely DH but I think that one may be  a given as he is with me everyday. I voted for someone who you grew closer too though because that is the one that most surprised me. Someone at my work talks to me about it and lets me vent as much as I want where DH has a time limit, lol...just kidding (kinda).

  
  BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
  BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
  BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
  BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12

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• Allycat11 member

  April 2012

  I guess DH has been the most supportive but he still doesn't quite understand how much I am hurting.  He actually got upset by something his mom said, in relation to our loss which was a shock to me and made me feel more supported.  I have had good moments with my mom and BFF, they know what to say but sometimes I wish they would check on me without me bringing it up. 

  11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 

  10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
  1/12/13 DD was born
  4/9/16 DS was born 
  9/17 CP 
  6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

  
  

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• AngnShaun

  April 2012

  my SIL, she also just knows more about the subject so its easier to talk to her... i dont need to explain every little thing... like yesterday my mom asked me what the difference was between a mature egg and a fertilized egg... yeesh Ma youve had 5 kids how do you not know what a fertilized egg is lol

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• GatorBaby2012

  April 2012

  I voted DH, but I also wanted to give a shout out to my therapist. She's amazing.
  

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• lovelainie member

  April 2012

  My mom has been amazing.

  DH is just now starting to understand how I've been feeling... For some reason it took three full months for the situation to really sink in for him. He's been supportive, but I don't think he knew what he was supporting, if that makes any sense at all. 

  TTC with MFI, PCOS, and endometriosis since February 2010

  BFP January 20,2012, Loss confirmed January 22,2012

  March-August 2012: Various medicated/IUI cycles, all BFN

  Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy October 2012: Fall Cleaning, Uterus Edition

  BFP 2-17-12 @12DPO Beta#1: 256 Beta#2: 1061

  EDD:10-27-13

  

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• CNYBride05 member

  April 2012

  I SS'd because it's a tie.  My SO has been wonderful (despite his own grieving), but there are some things he doesn't get.  A good friend, who has also had a m/c (and then a beautiful RB) has been great, but lives across the country.  And my mom, who has struggled with RPL vacillates between super supportive and totally not getting it.  So kind of all 3 and kind of no one?

  Natural m/c Oct. 2005
  
  Dx: balanced translocation and LPD
  
  TTC since Oct 2011
  
  BPF 02/19/12, EDD 10/31/12, natural m/c 02/28/12 (4w6d)
  
  IVF (BCPs starting 10/30/12, ER 11/18/12, 5dt of 1 beautiful, healthy embryo 11/23/12)
  BFP 12/02/12, u/s @ 6w,5d showed 2 HBs! Identical twins!!
  Bed rest from 21w-35w due to short cervix, hospital bed rest from 23w-32w due to PTL
  Our rainbows were born 07/19/13 (36w, 5d)
  
  

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• chrisleath member

  April 2012

  Definitely DH has been.  Besides everyone here, he is the only person who will talk to me, won't change the subject, and will bring up the fact that we lost our LO.  Everyone else skirts around the issue, pretends it never happens, or says their 2 cents then changes the subject. 
  

  BFP#1 10/24/11 ~ EDD 6/27/12 ~ m/c 11/15/11 BO
  BFP#2 6/10/12 ~ EDD 2/21/13 ~ mm/c 7/12/12 ~ D&C 7/13/12
  BFP#3 2/23/2013 ~ EDD 11/5/13 Beta#1 125, Beta#2 436, Beta#3 ???
  

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• egsquared member

  April 2012

  I can't believe I even chose this, but my MIL has really been the most supportive.  She went through multiple m/c's before conceiving DH and his brother, so she's really the only one who understands, probably even better than DH since he doesn't go through the whole physical part of the m/c.

  TTC #1 since 6/08. Cycle #6 - BFP 12/22/08, EDD 9/3/09, DD 8/14/09 at 37w1d

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  TTC #2 since 6/11

  me=36 - low AMH, DH=38

  BFP #2 - 8/31/11, EDD 5/10/12, M/C 9/23/11

  BFP #3 - 3/4/12, EDD 11/14/12, CP 3/11/12

  BFP #4 - 5/9/12, EDD 1/19/13, CP 5/11/12

  BFP #5 - 8/22/12, EDD 5/5/13, CP 8/24/12

  IVF#1 - January 2013 - EPP/Antagonist - 7R, 3M, 2F, 3dt of 2 8-cell embies

  BFP #6 - 2/3/13, EDD 10/15/13, DS 9/18/13 at 36w1d

  
  

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