December 2012 Moms

Im 18 and pregnant need advice cause alot is new to me!! :)

Me and my Fiance have told everyone even facebook so literely its world wide lol Left HugBig Smile Were happy and for sum reason everyone knows even the ones not on facebook can tell! Am i supposed to be showing this much? Embarrassed Also Should i be worried if im feeling lil bubbles in my tummy?  Im quitting cold turkey on smoking but need a substitute any ideas?? I also need advice on college i was suppost to be enrolled already but its tough!

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Re: Im 18 and pregnant need advice cause alot is new to me!! :)

  • Have you gone to the docs to get a confirmation?  Also, bloating will make you look like you are showing when you may not be. Congrats btw.

     

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  • Definitely call your doctor.  Like PP said, bloat will make you look like your showing. I've never smoked, but what about chewing gum? 

    Congrats! 

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  • I am going to pretend (read hope) this is mud. If it isn't, go to the doctor to get the answers to your medical questions.

     

    andplusalso.....I have heard babygaga.com is great. 

  • First off - Congrats!

    Second call your dr.  They will be able to give you assistance with quitting smoking.  I wouldn't switch to the gum (unless your dr suggests it) because it still contains nicotine.  I successfully quit about 3 1/2 years ago and I used wellbutrin but that med is not safe during pregnancy.  So basically talk with your dr - they will be your best source of information when it comes to quitting during pregnancy.  And CONGRATS for deciding to take the tough road, it really is the best for your baby!! 

    As for college that is something that only you can decide on.  College is difficult without a child, and even more so with one, but you will definitely be able to provide a better life for your child with a college degree in your hand.  I earned my bachelors degree so I know first hand how difficult it can be, and that was without a child.  My college roommate had a 3 year old and she was able to earn her degree as well.  It can be done. 

    Best of luck!!!

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  • I have already went to the docs and confirmed! Party!!! Thanx by the way! And gum doesnt help me much it makes me nervous and nautiousIck!  this baby cub doesnt seem to agree with much i eat! :/
  • Thank you and yes i think college is whats best for me would it be rushing to get married in the summer before my baby is born? Me and the Fiance decided thats whats best but sum of my family think otherwise...
  • I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

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    I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

    Yes 

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    imagehappilyeverafterxo:
    I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

    Yes 

    Yes

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    imagehappilyeverafterxo:
    I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

    Yes 

    Ditto

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  • imagemegemoney:
    Love the picture, totes sexy. 

    This plus MUD 

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  • MUD, yawn
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  • imagehappilyeverafterxo:
    I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

    Agreed. And, OP, in the event you are not MUD, you should get used to using proper grammar and spelling, especially if you are planning to start college. It's a good habit to get in to. On this board we communicate like grown ups

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    Suppost= supposed  

  • Goodness, why are y'all being so mean? We're supposed to be supportive here, not cutting others down. 
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  • Such a cute picture :) I'm not sure what you mean by "bubbles," but I know my stomach sometimes feels like it's moving around- I think it's just a response to hormones. However, like many have said, check with your OB- he/she would know best. 

    As for college, you do what you feel you can handle. I don't see why you should completely put it off- maybe go part time until baby is a year old or so? I'm putting OT school off for a year because there is no way I could handle being pregnant and getting a masters at once, but I will be taking a class or two a semester so that I can keep in the swing of things. 

    Being first-time pregnant (and young) is terrifying (going through it now), so don't be afraid to ask for help or advice. I got "What to Expect" and it's helped out sooo much.

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    imagehappilyeverafterxo:
    I really hope this is MUD... Hmm

    Agreed. And, OP, in the event you are not MUD, you should get used to using proper grammar and spelling, especially if you are planning to start college. It's a good habit to get in to. On this board we communicate like grown ups

    Sum=some

    Suppost= supposed  

    Yes 

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  • You just look fat, not pregnant. You should probably buy some more condoms.
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  • imagemommacub:

    Me and my Fiance have told everyone even facebook so literely its world wide lol Left HugBig Smile Were happy and for sum reason everyone knows even the ones not on facebook can tell! Am i supposed to be showing this much? Embarrassed Also Should i be worried if im feeling lil bubbles in my tummy?  Im quitting cold turkey on smoking but need a substitute any ideas?? I also need advice on college i was suppost to be enrolled already but its tough!

    literely = literally
    sum = some
    suppost = suppose

    Yeah, you should enroll in college.  

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  • Wow people on here are harsh and i know how to spell im just used to facebook!! Thanks though for thinking you guys no so much and no its not my first pregnancy its my second i miscarried first pregnancy! As for college i have a scholarship to UC Berkeley but thanks anyways for the ones putting me down and being assholes you know if you dont have anything good or  respectable to say dont write ***! :) Thanks xoxoxo MommaCub!! <3

     

  • thanx for ur support ahah dnt reply back if all it is is crap!
  • My doctor already has confimed and i am showing thank you very much! But if you think this is MUD why are you even wasting ur time writing that goes for everyone on this post!
  • Well it isnt so anything else that you need to say??
  • I read that book during my first pregnancy :) And thank you for being the only nice one on here everyone else is so critizing! I think Im just gonna quit this site I hate negativeness and it seems like this site according to my fiance "is filled with pregnant women with raging hormones bumping heads!" Lol
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    imagemommacub:
    I read that book during my first pregnancy :) And thank you for being the only nice one on here everyone else is so critizing! I think Im just gonna quit this site I hate negativeness and it seems like this site according to my fiance "is filled with pregnant women with raging hormones bumping heads!" Lol

    MUD or not, use the "quote" button when you're replying to someone's post directly.  It'll be a lot easier to follow that way. 



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  • Thanx so fucken much for being a *** get off my post if you think its bullshit!! :) And no hunny I have a Scholarship to berkeley for your info!! Dont believe me I guess ima have to post more pix!! lol Dumbasses who think things are bullshit really shouldnt waste their time on it right? Toodles!! ;)
  • imagemommacub:
    Thanx so fucken much for being a *** get off my post if you think its bullshit!! :) And no hunny I have a Scholarship to berkeley for your info!! Dont believe me I guess ima have to post more pix!! lol Dumbasses who think things are bullshit really shouldnt waste their time on it right? Toodles!! ;)
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  • There are so many things wrong with this post. I was 19 with DS and people like you are the reason young moms get such a bad rep! I was young went to school and worked. I also didn't spell "some" like I would spell ***... Classy. You have a lot to learn before becoming a mother to a newborn. Getting married for a child is never the right thing to do. GL to you and your baby.
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    There are so many things wrong with this post. I was 19 with DS and people like you are the reason young moms get such a bad rep! I was young went to school and worked. I also didn't spell "some" like I would spell ***... Classy. You have a lot to learn before becoming a mother to a newborn. Getting married for a child is never the right thing to do. GL to you and your baby.

    wow im not getting married just for the baby im in love and im spelling like that because this is a message board i dont need to spell everything out and excuse me i give a bad rep im a working teen pregnant mom i lost my first child and i am doing everything i can do rite for this baby you people can judge me i dont care because you dont know what ive been through to come as far as i am in life im a recent foster kid with a job and a full scholarship to UC Berkeley and im living on my own with my working boyfriend you guys think your so great for judging me on advice i was asking for?!  You guys are pathetic because you dont know what its like to be in my shoes think about what you people say before judging someone you dont know and have never met!!

  • imagenovemberbloom:

    Such a cute picture :) I'm not sure what you mean by "bubbles," but I know my stomach sometimes feels like it's moving around- I think it's just a response to hormones. However, like many have said, check with your OB- he/she would know best. 

    As for college, you do what you feel you can handle. I don't see why you should completely put it off- maybe go part time until baby is a year old or so? I'm putting OT school off for a year because there is no way I could handle being pregnant and getting a masters at once, but I will be taking a class or two a semester so that I can keep in the swing of things. 

    Being first-time pregnant (and young) is terrifying (going through it now), so don't be afraid to ask for help or advice. I got "What to Expect" and it's helped out sooo much.

     

    Thanks so much for being the only person their to support me i see that this website have alot of harsh criticizing moms its stressful hearing the stuff they are saying about me when they dont even know me and i know im not gonna fully put off scholl i never said i was im taking my scholarship and after my baby is born im still going to go to college im just going to have to rely on daddy while im at school mornings and me fill in for when hes at school at night and grandma is their for when were at work. 

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