Recommend your diaper bag to use while baby-wearing. I have an Ergo, and am looking at some backpack style diaper bags (or just regular backpacks!), since my current shoulder bag can sometimes feel cumbersome. I'd like something a little more gender neutral so my husband feels comfortable carrying it. Thanks!
Re: Baby carrier + diaper bag
We have the Fisher Price backpack and we got this specifically so DH wouldn't feel un-manly while carrying it. It has special buckles that can strap onto a stroller or shopping cart too. It has a ton of pockets and is not too big or too small. I frequently wear it while DS is in the BabyHawk.
Here's the link:
https://www.target.com/p/Fisher-Price-Fastfinder-On-The-Go-Backpack-Diaper-Bag-Brown/-/A-13201588
It comes in black now, but we have the brown. It's also pretty well built with very sturdy zippers. Not bad for $40.
I have the Charlie bag from So Young Mother, very gender neutral - https://www.soyoung.ca/products/charlie-bags-2/
It can be carried as a handbag/messenger style/backpack and also comes with stroller ties. I use it as a backpack with the Ergo, a shoulder bag when carrying my bub, and sometimes attached to the stroller.
Before that though I just used a regular backpack, both worked equally well with the Ergo.
This is the one I used until she was older and I could use a backpack style purse I had:
https://www.rei.com/product/829375/deuter-act-trail-20-sl-pack-womens
*LOVE IT* I can use it hiking if I want, holds everything I need, can access from the front/bottom or the top - and I used this feature daily, lots of spare pockets (including a zippered and mesh side pocket for food/water).