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I will admit i am scared

DreamGirl314DreamGirl314 member
in December 2012 Moms

I Mc in Nov. I just got my BFP on Friday. 

I dont want to tell anyone because last time i told my family and my husbands family i ended up having to tell 3 times as many people i miscarried even though i told them all not to tell people but they all decided oh well i can tell this person because well they are family or i can tell this person because you dont talk to them much and it just spiraled out of control! I got to the point were i just blocked off everything and got annoyed with people asking me how i was doing.

 

I found out that i will enter in my second trimester the same day i would have been due.

 

These next two months are going to be so LONG! i just hope this baby stays with me and grows strong and healthy thats all i really want.  

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Re: I will admit i am scared

  • TA110980TA110980 member

    You're not alone, and it's perfectly normal to be scared. I miscarried in October, we hadn't told anyone yet.  It made it easier not to have to un-tell anyone, but I also felt very alone that I didn't have anyone in real life to share my loss with (other than DH).

    We won't be telling our family until we're past the 1st tri, for some reason 14 weeks is stuck in my head as a good time to tell.  So I've got another 2+ months as well.  

    FX we both have take home babies in December!

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    BFP#1 - 09/12/11, EDD 5/18/12 - Stopped growing at 6w3d, m/c induced 10/14/11
    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

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  • AddictedToLipBalmAddictedToLipBalm member

    I feel for you, sincerely.

    Hoping this little bean is the one that stays with you! Sending the best of wishes. 

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  • LEP424LEP424 member
    Welcome and congratulations! I miscarried in November also. As with last time, we are telling close friends and family. It was so amazing to have their support when I lost the baby. I'm trying so hard to let the joy be greater than the fear, but I'm not going to lie...it is scary. There is also a Pregnant After a Loss board that is an awesome support. Hang in there! ((hugs))
    BFP #1 (m/c at 9 weeks, 11/11) BFP #2 (DS, 12/11/12) BFP #3 (EDD 10/8/14)
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  • TA110980TA110980 member
    LEP is right - PGAL is also a great and supportive board.
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    BFP#1 - 09/12/11, EDD 5/18/12 - Stopped growing at 6w3d, m/c induced 10/14/11
    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

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  • amberj97amberj97 member
    PGAL is great. I know exactly how you feel. I had a mc in December and told only a few people but they told a few who told a few.. and having to talk about it more than I wanted was hell. Also my due date is right around the time I had my mc.... how weird is that?
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