My body hurts when I sit, my body hurts when I stand, my body hurts when I lay down...Therefore to be constantly busy organizing and cleaning makes sense. It takes my mind off my back pain.
That is why I am nesting so much... How about you?
I just moved into a bigger home.. not I have a ton of space ... filled with boxes and I can't seem to relax for two minutes... DH is starting to get frustrated.
I just want it all done! My doc told me to slow down and take it easy. My dh was there so I can't cheat on that. But dh's idea of "getting things done" and mine....well, they aren't the same.
I have been having a ton of pain also. just lately I have been so exhausted. reminds me of 1st trimester exhaustion. hahaha it drives me crazy because im such an active and organised person. trying to balance everything is really difficult
I just want it all done! My doc told me to slow down and take it easy. My dh was there so I can't cheat on that. But dh's idea of "getting things done" and mine....well, they aren't the same.
This. Basically, if I want things done, I need to just do them myself. Otherwise I think I would nag him to death.
I've had 1-2 day spurts of nesting, then I become really lazy.
Tuesday I opened all the windows in the house. Vacuumed the enitre upstairs. Swept and mopped the kitchen and bathroom. Cleaned the toilet and shower. Then went on a 2 hour walk with SO and DS (in wagon).
Lazy. There's dishes galore. I did a bunch of laundry the past 2 days. Otherwise, I'm lazy. I should be doing my homework and trying to get ahead incase I go into labor early. Plus, I should shower... but I'd rather sit on the couch and bump. lol.
I am just so worried that when our little one gets here there will not be time nor will I have the energy to do it. I love my DH so much, but ladies you are right, his way of cleaning and getting things done are not the same as mine. It is like he does not see that anything is dirty but as soon as I start to do something he wants to clean the same space! Drives me nuts! But I guess it is way better then him not helping - then i would have to kill him hahaha
Also, I am a tad bit anal, I will be the one taking care of her for the first month or so because DH is going away with the military, so I want things to be put away where I think they will be easiest on me! So I think it is just easier if I do it!
I just wanna relax and DH wants me up and helping him clean, mow the lawn etc. All I wanna do is just take a nap, but that never happens. I took a half day off of work next friday so maybe I can mow and then have a 2 day weekend to get all of the cleaning done at a slower pace. It takes 4 hours to mow our yard on a tractor mower so I lose a 1/2 day every weekend and it is catching up to me now! We are painting next weekend so we have a lot of stuff to get done before help comes to move furniture this weekend. I will be so glad next Sunday when it is all done!
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6w3d hb=122 bpm/ 8w2d hb=186 bpm/12w2d could not hear hb had a 3rd u/s and got to see the hb. 16w2d heard the hb! 156 bpm. A/S 1/3=girl <a href="http://www.thenest.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Home D
Ive done everything for the same reason. My back kills. Wish I had more to do to keep me busy. Ive even resorted to getting the cars detailed and working on yard.
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I just moved into a bigger home.. not I have a ton of space ... filled with boxes and I can't seem to relax for two minutes... DH is starting to get frustrated.
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I just want it all done! My doc told me to slow down and take it easy. My dh was there so I can't cheat on that. But dh's idea of "getting things done" and mine....well, they aren't the same.
Make a pregnancy ticker
This. Basically, if I want things done, I need to just do them myself. Otherwise I think I would nag him to death.
I've had 1-2 day spurts of nesting, then I become really lazy.
Tuesday I opened all the windows in the house. Vacuumed the enitre upstairs. Swept and mopped the kitchen and bathroom. Cleaned the toilet and shower. Then went on a 2 hour walk with SO and DS (in wagon).
Lazy. There's dishes galore. I did a bunch of laundry the past 2 days. Otherwise, I'm lazy. I should be doing my homework and trying to get ahead incase I go into labor early. Plus, I should shower... but I'd rather sit on the couch and bump. lol.
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I am just so worried that when our little one gets here there will not be time nor will I have the energy to do it. I love my DH so much, but ladies you are right, his way of cleaning and getting things done are not the same as mine. It is like he does not see that anything is dirty but as soon as I start to do something he wants to clean the same space! Drives me nuts! But I guess it is way better then him not helping - then i would have to kill him hahaha
Also, I am a tad bit anal, I will be the one taking care of her for the first month or so because DH is going away with the military, so I want things to be put away where I think they will be easiest on me! So I think it is just easier if I do it!
My /Chart; BFP 3/8/11 CP 3/16/11; 7/11 HSG & S/A both clear;
Cycle 12~ 50 mg Clomid=BFP 9/9/11, Beta #1=280 & Beta #2=1513, 6w3d hb=122 bpm/ 8w2d hb=186 bpm/12w2d could not hear hb had a 3rd u/s and got to see the hb. 16w2d heard the hb! 156 bpm. A/S 1/3=girl
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Ive done everything for the same reason. My back kills. Wish I had more to do to keep me busy. Ive even resorted to getting the cars detailed and working on yard.